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Love is an illusion. I mean I get it if the use is just naive but. I mean. Denying his gender, ‘accidentally’ prostituting himself, crying at every turn, pushing the blame for everything onto everyone else and taking advantage of others’ kindness like he deserves it ; all these are still acceptable as a human, just makes him a b*tch. But. HE ......   2 reply

First off, this is normal and just a part of growing and finding your sexuality. Don’t stress too much over this, the fact that you’re taking the time to think this over means that you’re not stupid or pathetic but introspective and fully aware and in tune with your thoughts and emotions. I’d tentatively suggest that you may be attracted to......   reply

I like plots where the “ugly” character loves themselves, or at least learns to love themselves without any glow up. They seem so much more badass when they don’t care about their looks. “Cursed princess club” from Webtoon is rly great at showing this.   1 reply

Complete freedom to splurge on all the snack and drinks at the supermarket and then crash onto bed at home while watching steamy yaoi/BL scenes. (๑>◡   reply

But then if that was true, you could argue that people who watch and read straight/gay/lesbian porn, erotica and romance movies objectify and fetishise straights/gays/lesbians in real life. Sane people don’t because they keep fiction and rl world separate. Therefore women who read yaoi also keep real life and fiction separate. Plus, I read shoune......   reply

Good morning from the UK! Sips tea for breakfast at 4:16am because it is srsly the best drink for all-nighters. And because our house has too many jars of tea leaves   1 reply

Why feeling so down? You have less than a century being alive, it’s best to do everything you’ve ever wanted with the time you’ve been given. Humans aren’t pathetic, quite the opposite. They’re spirited and animated because they’re mortal. The amazing advances humanity has progressed by is due to the fact that their time alive is finite......   reply

For me, baking and listening to some upbeat songs or a podcast you might like is a great pick-me-up because it helps me take my mind off things and relax. Anything that helps you relax and is something that you wouldn’t usually do will be helpful to try. The number one failsafe method for cheering yourself up has got to be hanging out with positi......   reply

Yep, back in primary 3 to a friend. Man, back then, being the smoll bean I was, I don’t think I could’ve told you the difference between like and love and I probably only liked him as a friend. Anyway, long story short, he talked to me and probably said something along the lines of “no thanks, I like being friends with you”. Anyway, later r......   2 reply

Spending more time with family   reply