1738 ay's answer (12)

other people pretty much summed it up already but in short: yes. yes it is. it's invalidating to actual mlm and is absolutely no different from a cis male getting off to lesbian porn. it fetishizes the sexuality. i'm personally mlm and can advocate for the fact that it's weird/creepy. at least for me. i'm not gonna sugarcoat this for you.   3 reply

i was pretty famous for being anxious, lol. i was that one kid who went out in the halls to have a fully blown panic attack during exam time.   reply

shut up   reply

as a gay man, i agree with some aspects of this. i personally think its harmful and unneeded for the hets to write lgbt fiction simply because its not something theyre familiarized with. "write what you know", right? there's no need for straight people to write lgbt+ focused things when its not an issue they struggle with personally. furthermore, a......   1 reply

depends on your age. id say that people shouldnt smack the acearo label on themselves until theyre at least 18. some people just have slow acting libidos.   reply

alrighty, somewhat unrelated, but here's my big pansexuality=bisexuality proof. lets start off with the proof that the first modern coined usage of the term was in a forum a while back (maybe around 2010?) that claimed "unlike bi people, pansexuals love all genders, like transgender and nonbinary. we are attracted to personality. hearts not parts......   1 reply

you are a result of the post 2016 internet lgbt+ media overrepresentation like so many others in all seriousness, if you would date girls but you wouldnt take em in bed, youre probably biromantic heterosexual.   reply

mlm here. i can personally say that doing it with men is better than doing it with women ever was - for me at least. i think both parties tend to come out feeling a lot better in the end than straight couples do because, well, you know each other's bodies better. it's only natural that a man is gonna know how to please a man well and vice versa, fr......   reply

AHHHHHH bingus   reply

yes, it will probably hurt the first time if it's with a guy. if it's with a girl, there's gonna be less pain, considering a girl will know your body better and there's gonna be less "going in". but yes, if it's with a guy, it will probably be uncomfortable to a degree. that being said, it shouldn't really hurt awfully if he's gentle.   reply

they had us in the first half ngl   reply

my life was better 1 minute ago before i saw this   reply