Simp's question (3)

Hi guys can you drop some duo photo references or clothing references so I could use it for Mitsukou fanart I wanna make ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I would drop my art account but I dont think that's smart lol

I had an argument on tik tok and basically I said the sexualizing minors is wrong fictional or not. Then they brought up the "but you watch dark themes so you shouldnt be talking" but the video got taken down so I couldnt refute. What do yall stand in this argument and why?
I can give more context if yall want, like which animes they thought were just as bad as loli hanime

How do yall feel about calling
Yaoi: nsfw BL
And
Shounen ai: BL
Because I feel like we should normalize this in order to get those p3d0phil1c terms outta here.