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help me pls
Sooo... I have this crush and last month we somehow got married on Discord- and we have children but thing is during the time I proposed to my crush on Discord I officially asked them out but they didn't exactly reject me but told me they weren't ready for a relationship... and recently they did this Q&A on their instagram story and one of the questions they were asked was "What's your status relationship" and my crush responded with "I have a wife (AKA me)" and also putting "Taken, i guess to put it short" and now I'm literally confused if we're actually together- cause I thought we agreed that we weren't dating but just getting married jokingly and I literally don't know what we are to each other anymore
You should just talk it out honestly, in private, bc it gets really frustrating if it drags on for too long, Been there done that. Just go for it! 1 reply
Bro be straightforward and be like are you kidding or not because if you asked is that a joke then you could have passed it as a friendly way of saying what the heck are you saying while also clarifying your relationship status 1 reply
I never answer questions but I felt the sheer frustration in this as I was reading and imma go ahead and give my 2 cents. I'm also gonna jump the gun and assume your crush is a boy, bc they are the only mfs ik who pull this kinda shit.
*psa* I'm blunt as fuck, but I mean no ill will. sorry if I sound like an ass
first things first, y'all are NOT...... 1 reply
I don't know other alternatives. But the best way for a good healthy relationship is always two-ways communication & understanding. In this case, ask him directly, BUT take your time first to be prepared for upcoming answers. After you asked him, then be honest. Tell him properly about your thoughts of the whole situation. This way, he'll know what...... 1 reply
