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Tutor is upset cause I won’t study with him alone for safety!?
So my tutor and I was discussing about what time he wil come to my home to tutor me. I told him he can come at 9-10 am. Then I was talking to myself that my dad is gonna be home at that time so it’s ok. Then he asked me why cant he can tutor me if I'm alone. I told him for safety reason. Then he got really upset. I told him I didn’t mean it like that and said I'm sorry if it hurt his feelings. Then he was silent for a long time. ( He is very talkative and It was super akward) Then he told me I think too negatively and he was hurt. Then he was going on about how long we know each other. I said he taught me for like 2 years.. He said It’s the way I said it I was too straight forward. It’s kinda weird because like I'm a teenage girl so it’s obvious that a person who is not related to me can't enter the house when I'm home alone.. It is a ridiculous question why he can't tutor me when I'm alone. Then he gets upset when I tell him it’s for safety. And tells me I'm too negative. Like no I'm not.. I already experienced men being absolute creeps.. Whould you be upset if you were in my tutor's place? I don’t get what I did wrong, he looked really sad when he left so..
So I told my family about it. They were freaked out and told me it’s not normal for a tutor to ask why they can't be alone with a child with no parents or guardians around. When everyone knows the answer. He as an adult should understand and not question me. And I was logical to refuse him. They said the tutor stayed silent to guilt trip me. They...... 5 reply