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Tutor is upset cause I won’t study with him alone for safety!?
So my tutor and I was discussing about what time he wil come to my home to tutor me. I told him he can come at 9-10 am. Then I was talking to myself that my dad is gonna be home at that time so it’s ok. Then he asked me why cant he can tutor me if I'm alone. I told him for safety reason. Then he got really upset. I told him I didn’t mean it like that and said I'm sorry if it hurt his feelings. Then he was silent for a long time. ( He is very talkative and It was super akward) Then he told me I think too negatively and he was hurt. Then he was going on about how long we know each other. I said he taught me for like 2 years.. He said It’s the way I said it I was too straight forward. It’s kinda weird because like I'm a teenage girl so it’s obvious that a person who is not related to me can't enter the house when I'm home alone.. It is a ridiculous question why he can't tutor me when I'm alone. Then he gets upset when I tell him it’s for safety. And tells me I'm too negative. Like no I'm not.. I already experienced men being absolute creeps.. Whould you be upset if you were in my tutor's place? I don’t get what I did wrong, he looked really sad when he left so..
you did the right thing it's wierd that he asked you that, when its supposed to be the obvious ... it doesnt matter if he is the best guy/man its always better to be on the presence of a family member. reply