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Need an opinion on whether I'm overreacting or no?
Umm so hi. So I need an opinion on this. I'm 23 and I've never dated before. I met a guy yesterday on bumble(the dating app) he was sweet in the beginning. But then he started to ask me extremely personal questions. Like sexual ones. As in "do you mast*rb*ate", "how many fingers would you like." "I'd like to relieve you from being so innocent." And several other weird ass questions it made me really uncomfortable so I told him I won't answer any of those questions. And stopped the conversation there. Am I overreacting? Or are men usually like this? I have no experience whatsoever in dating so idk how to deal with these things. Please can I get some opinions? :( I'm really confused. I'm too embarrassed to tell my irl friends.
Girlie you aren't overreacting, you shouldn't talk to him again. He was most likely sweet in the beginning to get you comfortable enough to respond to his freaky ass questions. Just because he's weird and disrespects people's boundaries, doesn't mean you should keep dealing it. Drop him and find someone better than that! You deserve more than a cre...... 2 reply
Might be a result of meeting off a dating app? From what I've seen, the population there has more people like that. But that is by no means how all men are. If they make you uncomfortable, don't force yourself to keep talking to them. reply
Nope, stay away from that man. He just wants to hook up with you and if this is not your objective you don’t need to meet him anymore. Dating apps can make the search a little bit more difficult but not impossible (actually a friend of mine met her half through an app). 1 reply
babes if anything you were underreacting. also ive never been on a dating app so idk but surely there's a way to filter out dudes who are just trying to fuck like ticking a box saying 'please dont send me your dick i want a serious relationship' or smt if not wtf 1 reply
Well no all men are not like that. But that is not the actual question. He is obviously want a sexual relationship (and NOTHING remotely close to dating). Question is what you want. You want to start with a purely sexual relationship, or start with normal dating? In my opinion you should go with B because you don't have experience to handle A. Also...... 1 reply
It's not new to me I've been around dating app for long. Almost every there are really just looking for seggsual pleasure. I encounter one of this they just wanted to see if you bite and then ask you for some 3some whatsoever, whtvr it is your no overreacting just dont go look to bumble or some other dating apps I swear im also just there to get so...... 1 reply
You're not overreacting, if anything, he's the weird one. Just ditch/block him atp. Guys who asks that kind of weird ass questions are literally just perverts who probably just wants your body or some sh. And people who answered your question here can tell that he's definitely a weirdo. stay safe pooks reply
