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Need an opinion on whether I'm overreacting or no?
Umm so hi. So I need an opinion on this. I'm 23 and I've never dated before. I met a guy yesterday on bumble(the dating app) he was sweet in the beginning. But then he started to ask me extremely personal questions. Like sexual ones. As in "do you mast*rb*ate", "how many fingers would you like." "I'd like to relieve you from being so innocent." And several other weird ass questions it made me really uncomfortable so I told him I won't answer any of those questions. And stopped the conversation there. Am I overreacting? Or are men usually like this? I have no experience whatsoever in dating so idk how to deal with these things. Please can I get some opinions? :( I'm really confused. I'm too embarrassed to tell my irl friends.
As a guy, HONEY STAY AWAY FROM HIM. Guys who are like that are only interested with one thing from you. Your body. Please ditch that guy off, you're not overreacting or anything. That's creepy asf and an actual decent guy wouldn't go do that. I must admit it's sad to say most men are like this. 1 reply
Yo if ure looking for a loved one then those questions he's asking are fucking weird and U ARENT overreacting. People have boundaries and he should respect you. He's just really horny, red flag tbh. I suggest looking for someone who is also looking for a loving relationship and not just a cum party. Good luckk!! 1 reply
If ur uncomfortable with it; then no you didn't over react.
It's good that u told the dude you wouldn't answer those questions. Set those boundaries with everyone and eventually you'll find someone who respects them and hopefully who you'll like romanticly.
A lot of men on gross like that tho but there's bound to be some good ones out there.
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take this with a grain of salt since I'm currently in my first relationship and I'm very unexperienced, but in my opinion, that is not normal and he should not be asking you personal questions like that. to me it's disrespectful that he's asking you sexual questions when you guys just met from a dating app and it seems like he's just trying to hook...... 1 reply
Nah, just a lot of these people in dating apps are usually there for hookups. You’re good but you should find someone else who is genuine. There’s actually good ones but hard to find 1 reply
no!! you're not overreacting. that's really weird n he's probably a predator on there just to get himself off. that's not normal and im glad you stopped the conversation. if something makes you uncomfy then don't continue, you did well :) 1 reply
block delete and next one ...:) i remember when i was in buble whenever they got creepy and disgusting i told i would sent them a picture of me (￣∇￣") and of course they clicked on that (it was dick pic) lol then i told them i hope you liked it and blocked them. 1 reply
