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How to stop being a pick me?
Hello!!! I had a conversation with a friend and they told me I sometimes sounded like a pick me. And I know that's a bad thing cause people hate it so I said "ye that's true" cause what can I say? So now I am wondering how not to be a pick me?
Don’t make being “not like other girls” your whole personality and don’t be judgmental of feminine girls that just like doing girly things. Also don’t say cringe things like: “I'm so pretty with make up that people constantly compliment me, so I hate it”. Were you genuinely not embarrassed while telling your friend that? I got the ick...... 3 reply
Hi,
I don't have the full context on the situation, so please take my words with a grain of salt and take what applies to you.
I don't know your friends and nor how much they genuinely care about you, but if you think they have your best interest in mind (and that they're not projecting their insecurities onto you), I guess you can try some of th...... 2 reply
Idk but when you said "ye that's true", it just sounds like you're a bit pushover, cause if you are indeed a pick me girl, you would've denied it. Maybe you're friends are just fakes or they're insecure? This is just my thoughts tho.
Regarding to your question, in my opinion, i consider a girl a pick me if they are dragging other girls just to ge...... 2 reply
I think someone else said it earlier, but a pick me is generally someone who drags others down with backhanded comments to make themselves “stand out” from the rest…even though they OBVIOUSLY HATE attention (sarcasm). Riribibi on insta makes a lot of videos that show good examples of pick me behavior (they’re satire so sometimes they’re e...... reply