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r/AmITheBadGuy. am I (16 Female seattle) sexist towards men
Relationships with men are just so replaceable compared to relationships with women. Talk abt my interests to them males and everythings fine but then when they start being weird (i find myself surrounded by incels so they want to smooch every girl who they come into contact with) i just leave and replace them. But with women i put tons of effort into maintaining a friendship and if it ends it’s a lot harder to find someone to ‘replace them’. and if i do end up finding a ‘replacement’ everything just feels so much different. like wow they’re actually individuals… but like with men, they all act the same and are unsettling/uncomfortable to be around at times.
basically ig i form a deeper connection with other women compared to men. it’s like men are all the same and they just treat every woman in their lives who arent related to them as talking boobies. they just make things weird and i feel sick when men.. you could say that attraction is the barrier from me forming deeper connections with men but i’m fine being friends with women who are queer. then again gay women are actually respectful and don’t make everything weirdly sexual
is this a sexist mindset mangago forums?! am i bound to be a misandrist forever?!?!
tldr:!!! i‘m always uncomfortable around men and therefore unable to establish proper friendships with them. is this uneasiness caused by my own prejudices ???? or is it just a universal feeling that all women experience
girll this is so real, i've been asking myself the same question cause my past relationships with men have been so wonky, like idk if its just the guys i meet but they all seem to have a shit personality and don't seem to understand emotions the way the girls ik would. it dont mean youre sexist though, as long as you dont mistreat someone because t...... reply
I used to be a pick me for this reason. Growing up I was very loud and feminine but I realised very early that boys don't see me as a human or even a gender neutral entity. Especially since i live in a conservative 3rd world country. But it really hurt me because well i wanted to be friends with everyone but i only ever had girlfriends but it was f...... reply
might be sexist but whose fault it is u end up like that? them. they all hate women anyways. one move they be spamming "women " lmao. hate em back.
kidding aside, its rly not abt genders. it just happened that all shitty person youve met are men (same) its their personality and attitude as an individual, as a human, they dont represent their gende...... reply
Not at all. Society views women as objects, extras for men to have. Men (and a lot of women) internalize those views and as a result barely see women as humans. That's why yeah most men are trash and don't see us as equal humans in the first place reply
Not the bad guy. You can’t help being uncomfortable around men because of the way they act and that’s normal tbh even as a gay dude myself, its kinda uncomfortable to be around other guys… reply
I actually had the exact same thoughts and worries as you, a chat with a girl in a socializing app made me think if I was being sexist I even searched "Am I sexist" online but it kept bringing me to MEN being sexist
Edit: I think this needs more context
I use socializing apps to fill in like gaps where I'm not in the mood for anything, I'm too b...... 1 reply
