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relationship advice (helpmeplease)
ok so a guy dm me on tiktok, he wanted us to be moots, i said yes. but he asked us to be friends on discord too, i said yes too. we've only been chatting for about a week, but he confess his love for me??? even though we've only known for a week. I rejected him, but from yesterday he seems to conclude that we are dating. he started calling me babe, honey, etc. he is also 4 years older than me. i feel very uncomfortable, i want to ghost him but isn't that very bad? he started updating me about his daily life, I felt bad about ghosting him. what should i do?
The most important thing is to prioritize yourself first, if you’re uncomfortable then you need to communicate abt this to him. Maybe for starter you can ask, ‘Why are you calling me babe?’. After that you can see what’s going on and you can tell & explain to him how uncomfortable you are with his behavior.
I would say immediately ghost him...... 1 reply
Distance yourself & Block him, I know you feel bad about ghosting (I did too) but you should cut him off - being too nice in these situations will just put a strain on yourself, I was in similar situations and now that I'm the older one I can tell you it is honestly weird & creepy how these people behave.
You'll find better people to befriend. ...... reply
He is a creep. Dont let yourself feel bad. Prioritize yourself please. Making you uncomfortable is enough reason to block him on everything. Also the fact that u rejected him but he is still talking as if u both are dating is your cue to get the fuck away from him. 1 reply
eww LMAO i had a guy like that he would constantly call me my love and babe after i clearly rejected him to somehow gaslight me into thinking we were dating also sent me random love poems he googled and acted like he wrote them. once got me ice cream, followed me to my house bc i refused to take it and threw it at my back as i went into the buildin...... 3 reply
So, I'm sure you know this guy the best, we don't know what kinda guy he is or his temperment but you're right to be wary about this situation, you guys don't know each other very well, and you have already rejected him, so I d k why he would do that, that honestly sounds messed up, I wouldn't let this go on further personally 1 reply
