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What's an opinion of yours that has changed recently?
Pet names (or terms of endearment), you either hate them or love them. I'm with the group that loves them, but I still have a list of pet names that are a big no for me. Kitten was on that list because at the time it was associated with discord mods, and it just sounded weird to me. Nowadays I actually thought about the term again and I thought to myself, "Hmmm, maybe its not...too bad?" idk, if it's the right person that calls me "kitten", I'd kinda get into it. Maybe because the pairing became less relevant. Still wouldn't date a discord mod though.
That I need to get into a relationship because I'm 'missing out'. I'm already past the age where most people have been at least in one relationship. But I don't have the desire for it at all. Sometimes when I see couples on the street I think I should try it too, but it's not something I'd be able to commit to. SINGLE PEOPLE UNITE!!
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The UN should call themselves useless nations because they cannot do anything without Daddy America's permission. This whole time, I have been thinking that the UN is actually helping people, but I was wrong. The US have used vetoes 82 times, and out of all of those, the U.S. has used its veto in support of Israel 21 times—nearly half of the U.S....... 3 reply
Gossip. It used to be a hard no for me, but I guess nothing is as relaxing as saying "No, you're right, that guy was being a huge asshole!!!". I still have limits, like it has to be true and bad towards others (so no appearance/speech insults). Also it comes with the understanding that you're also being kind of not nice. 2 reply
How I feel about the "you're the sole reason I'm alive" trope. I used to think it was romantic, until I experienced it myself. I hit it off with a guy I met online and after a while, he spilled all his trauma to me, so I consoled him. At first it made me feel like a hero, a knight in shining armour swooping in to rescue the damsel in distress. He w...... 2 reply
Pregnancy and motherhood in general. I thought as i grew older i would hv a kid or two but my recent pregnancy made me change that perspective...I was diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum which made the pregnancy alot tougher than expected which led up to me miscarrying and severely traumatized.
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probably kids as well. i used to think they were annoying and i was those shitty people who would go overboard with my child hate, but now its like ofc kids are gonna be annoying theyre developing most of them arent intentionally trying to be annoying. and every genreation grows up with diffrent things, doesnt mean theyre "doomed" oce they start gr...... reply
that wlw relationships are "easier". Im a lesbian, and I'd never been in a serious relationship before. I'd had two previous relationships, but they werent as serious and pretty casual. I was a kid and it was more of a "I have a crush on you", "oh me too!" "we should date" and that was it. Then I became an adult and got into my first serious relati...... reply
Height difference, I use to like a difference but now it just to me makes me feel kiddish when I stand next to a taller person. And I use to find it cute, now I get uncomfortable sometimes. I’m 5’0” and standing next to my 5’8”-6’2” classmates makes me wanna run away, I literally hate looking up. It feels like a power difference ’c...... 1 reply
That being boring is lame. Recently I learnt that its okay to not ALWAYS have something to say. Its absolutely fine to stay quiet if you nothing to tell/add in the conversation. This made me realize how much I try to fill in the silence and how much I make things so fucking awkward for myself. I used to force myself to say something, like literally...... 2 reply