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Is this considered abusive?
I mean my relationship with my mom is honestly confusing like one moment me and my mom are fighting so bad to the point we start getting physical and I start bleeding and my legs are black and blue from getting pushed on to the floor so many times and I got 3 little cuts on my face (btw you can't even see them and they healed) and she sometimes pulls my hair and said she was going to cut it and some other stuff but the rest of the time we're chill so I don't really consider this abusive because she has to do this 24/7 to be abusive right?
What your mom is doing is domestic violence (assuming you live with her), she is an abuser and she is abusing you. Youre downplaying your situation, any form of violence againt your child is abuse. Supposing that you hit her back i think she would still face charges, self defense and all.
I suggest you collect evidence of the abuse, images of th...... reply
yeah it's definitely abusive. Punishing one's child is fine and even encouraged to discipline them especially when they are young but beating, bleeding, and threatening to cut your hair....big yikes. If your father isn't in your life or if he is as abusive, I'm sorry to say but your best chance will be when you're 18 and can move out especially if ...... reply
That's straight up abuse. I don't blame you for not knowing though because for victims it's hard to identify. Go to a trusted adult, if you have friends that have good parents, I'm sure they would be willing to help. reply
I am sorry but this aint a healthy relationship at all . This is totally and absolutely abusive wth which normal mom beats her kid upto the point of bleeding . I am sorry u should try if possible to consult someone u can trust asap !! Never normalize this bullshit behaviour and no time limit is considered to judge an abuse 1 reply
Ok first off, if you are one-sidedly being hurt then yes it is abuse and please call a trusted adult - it better be someone outside your family as family is biased and will often try to hide such things. Teachers are usually pretty good about this, but if there is a social worker at your school maybe contact them, but I've had pretty bad experience...... reply
