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イリヤ_ イリヤ_ 2023-11-20 18:39:13 About having a lover
It was nice at first but now things are getting boring and I'm getting sick of him, which is probably my fault I have a tendency to get tired of things quick and apparently that also applies to people too.
And now I don't really know what to do, weather I should break it off or just go through with it. It's funny cause at first I liked him so much I thought I would die and now I'm just like meh.

My advice is to think things through first before just doing things, following ur heart doesn't always end well

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alien November 20, 2023 8:16 pm

Sorry if this is unsolicited but talk with him first. Talk about your feelings and worries. Maybe its something you can solve. Relationships aren't always gonna be exciting sometimes love is just being comfortable with the other person and being in love with them. Enjoying being together.

But if you two cant solve it and you still feel the same then maybe breaking up is the better choice. If you think being in a relationship with him is not right for you and you truly don't like him as you thought then, that happens sometimes. Sometimes you find out your not the right match for each other afterwards. Its a process of figuring shit out and its life. Maybe you'll find someone new or maybe relationships aren't for you, like you said its something you might have to think about.

Wish you the best man.

イリヤ_ November 20, 2023 8:35 pm

thx dude, but it's probably just cause I'm trash.

it's been like a month.

alien November 20, 2023 8:49 pm
thx dude, but it's probably just cause I'm trash.it's been like a month. イリヤ_

Haha try not to be hard on yourself.
I wont say anything more cause I don't wanna sway your decion for the future of your relationship, so the only thing ill say is whatever happens and whatever you choose take it as a learning experience and a way to better yourself as well as understand yourself better. And also other people too. Even if you feel like your trash you can learn from this to be a better person in one way or another.

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