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Have you ever been hit on/confessed to?
While I was still in high school I went shoe shopping with my mom for prom and she left me alone to go to the restroom. And, the split second she left some dude comes up to me and says "Hi! You are SO pretty! My name's h/n." and he reached out his hand so I just acted polite even tho I was a little weirded out under the circumstances. (keep in mind im like super socially awkward so idk how to respond to that)
It turned out that he worked there but I was a lil skeptical so I bolted out of there (after he walked off) to go where my mom was and we went back tgt after. But, to make things even more awkward a classmate that I knew worked there and she saw the whole thing from earlier. We laughed ab it when I went to say hi and out of curiosity I asked how old he was and she signed w her hand 24 and I was flabbergasted cuz I knew he was older than be but not that much older.
She also told me later on at school that she told him that I was a minor and he responded like "Is that weird?" (/TДT)/ and I was like nahhhh not only did he think I was old he still wasn't certain if that was weird or not after finding out my age??? Mans is fixing to catch a case fr (joke)
But, in the end I always tend to meet the strangest ppl whenever I do go outside (although I do appreciate those who seem genuine like shoe guy he just need to learn to ask ab age first-)
How do you guys deal w being confessed to or hit on? (if you have before)
hit on either by children who talk crazy, gay men or creepy old women, , one time there's this girl who wanted my snap, i said i have a gf and she seems like she's a minor, deadass said she don't mind and age don't matter kids nowadays 2 reply
ive been confessed to by a guy in high school........ugh.......I feel bad for the guy so much................so that day I wasnt feeling well that day and I stumbled across the school wanting to go to the bathroom where he stopped me looking all bashful and shit.......I didnt wanna be rude so I asked him and he said "I like u" and then my stomach a...... 3 reply
usually younger boys ask for my number or try asking me out but I usually shut them down by saying I'm married and am mother to 2 kids (I'm neither of those things) 1 reply
There have been many instances where guys have come up to me to ask for my number (I just make them feral like that) But this one takes the trump just because it happened like 3 days ago and I'm still shitting myself.
I was walking back from my part time job LATE at night and I thought I was alone at first, but then I looked back and there was th...... 2 reply
a couple years ago when i was 13 a 17 yr old confessed to me and i left him waiting for an answer for a month LMAOOO. idk what he was expecting my mentality was not that grown. By the time i answered i turned 14, like i rlly took my time to say no. i thought he was so sweet, so i felt bad saying no and still kept contact but now i am older and oml ...... reply
i’m a masc in an all girls school so ppl sometimes have a crush on me. The worst type is the younger girls. They have a crush on me and gives me candy, gifts, and letters. The thing is one time they asked a TEACHER to give it to me. And that teacher gave it to me in the DRESSING ROOM. Like why can’t u just give it to me in a normal place. They�...... 4 reply
I've been hit on and I usually respond by saying, "I have a gf, sorry" (even if I dont) cuz I find it weird to hit on someone before getting to know them
And for the confessions, I normally decline them (my last gf waited 4 years for my answer and then we dated) most of the time if I don't know them, but if I do then it depends ig? 3 reply
For me i always get hit on by kids way younger than me, they all think i want a cupcake or that im 15. The times where i got hit on by women older than me it was always my girlfriends 'friends'. One of them even asked her for my snapchat because she "wanted be friends" with me . I do get hit on by men pretty often too but i dont really care. 1 reply