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How do yall do it
Yall legitamately how do yall just be having relationships and not get bored.
Like i can’t even get past the talking stage without them complaining to me about being unresponsive or not hanging out with them as much as i should or something. Like legitimately how do yall do it.
Also speaking of the talking stage it is so much time and effort to have to texts these guys about boring shit that i am not at all interested in.
I feel like on paper having a friends with benefits is so much easier cause it’s you don’t have to do all that. The only issue is that it always ends up in them tryna take the relationship further and then i have to deal with even more problems. Like is it just me? Am i going for the wrong guys? Do i just not like guys?
On top of that some of you are out here CHEATING????? You’re telling me that yall are juggling not one but two relationships without either of them knowing???? HUH????
Honestly i know I’m probably the only one who thinks this way but let me know if i have a point or if i just sound crazy.
yea, i too also hate the "talking stage", it never works out. thats why i just befriend them and chat to them as i would with any of my female friends. it works out better that way. if the guy can't catch a clue and acts flirty within the first 5 months of chatting then i just ghost them lol reply
I think communication becomes easier once you just go with the flow and (sometimes) try to match their energy, me nd my gf talk like friends about like everything
Like u said, setting boundaries is so much easier on paper but i think a text clarifying what u consider as "safe" does the job, smth like "btw i need u 2 know that i dont rlly feel comfo...... 1 reply
You clearly weren't interested enough in the person if speaking with them was ''boring shit''' so I'd say the person you were going out with was definitely wrong for you. Also what kind of problems are you referring to when taking the relationship further? I feel like you're overthinking it a bit, going out with someone isn't so big of a deal and t...... 1 reply
To answer your question simply, yes, you are going for the wrong guys. Like multiple levels of wrongness. The bottom line is, don't try to be in a relationship with someone that you wouldn't want to be just friends with. If you can't have fun conversations with them, don't go for them in the first place. I don't get why you would even go for someon...... reply
