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How do yall do it
Yall legitamately how do yall just be having relationships and not get bored.
Like i can’t even get past the talking stage without them complaining to me about being unresponsive or not hanging out with them as much as i should or something. Like legitimately how do yall do it.
Also speaking of the talking stage it is so much time and effort to have to texts these guys about boring shit that i am not at all interested in.
I feel like on paper having a friends with benefits is so much easier cause it’s you don’t have to do all that. The only issue is that it always ends up in them tryna take the relationship further and then i have to deal with even more problems. Like is it just me? Am i going for the wrong guys? Do i just not like guys?
On top of that some of you are out here CHEATING????? You’re telling me that yall are juggling not one but two relationships without either of them knowing???? HUH????
Honestly i know I’m probably the only one who thinks this way but let me know if i have a point or if i just sound crazy.
im a man inlove, and i will tell you that you are just chasing the high you just want all the flirting with no commitment so i wish you find someone like you cuz you can easily hurt someone (anyways look at my gf) 4 reply
My girlfriend came to answer this:
ok girls listen to me, this is what yall gotta do to maintain a relationship with a man. When you start dating a man you're adopting a son, them bitches dont even have damn trash cans sometimes just bags on doorknobs, to be short they are children but thats what you want. You have to be willing to teach those dumb...... 3 reply
No, you have such a point, being in a full time relationship seems mentally draining to me. Also all the work you’re putting in can be over with just one action from both parties.
Also the cheating part, I don’t understand that either. Because you have to make both relationships feel cared for and make sure they are comfortable with you.
Al...... 2 reply
I WAS THE SAME WAYY LMAOO. you definetly got commitment issues. honestly you need to find someone that you truly love. like when you do, you truly give it your all and try to make things work. sure times get frustrating and having a fuck buddy is easier but there's no comfort in that the way there is in a relationship. you def are going for the wro...... reply
Relationships are so draining "you just gotta find the right one" I would rather relapse again, the only thing I can "commit" to is a sexual relationship and it never lasts more than a week reply
For me, friends with benefits are easier. I don't have to emotionally put much effort in and get to have a good time. I want to be in a relationship, but not in the headspace to do so. I think the fwb I'm currently with (I only do it with one person at a time) is starting to get attached which is kind of annoying because he knew what he was getting...... reply
I think if you really love someone like truly love them, you don't get bored even if you don't do anything, you simply like their presence. If you think of the relationship as a transaction or only being in it to brag to people, I think you'll just find it boring and you can't really call that a relationship. Arguments, complaints, and things like ...... 1 reply
myb step back from the dating scene first? cuz to me it sounds like u got commitment issues...
Imo talking stage is definitely important but its better to do it in person rather than in text...It shows how much effort that person is willing to take to get to know u better.
Anyways compromising and alot of patience is the key to healthy relationship...... 1 reply
Tell me where tf should I find someone to be in a relationship with? I had way too many experiences with men who seem to be nice but then start harassing me and straight up stalk me. IT HAPPENED NUMEROUS TIMES. Honestly I think a lot of men in my country are fucked up and it’s partly because of their upbringing reply