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Confessing to a friend
So I have a really good friend who I didn't know very well until recently. This friend is in a relationship with a girl, and they seem really happy together. But every time my friend brings up the girlfriend, I get really anxious and fidgety. I don't know what to do because I haven't felt like this before and I really don't want to get in between the two, but it's putting a strain on our personal friendship and I really need to let go of it all.
And to top it all off, there are some really homophobic people in my year, so I don't want to draw any attention to the matter in case it backfires on my friend.
Any advice on what to do in this situation would be greatly appreciated.
Personally i feel it's selfish to confess since they're already in a relationship it will put relentless pressure on them if it's as you say you're both good friends. But staying true to yourself is important as well, so ultimately it depends on you what exactly you want and i think you answered the question before you asked that you want to let go...... reply
If Your friend is in relationship (and it is a happy relationship) then you shouldn't get in between them (!) That would be selfish of you... Look - You are dating someone you love and your friend who you just get to know just recently comes out that he likes you - what would you do ? Would you cheat on your partner ? would you break up just becaus...... reply
to be honest, my situation is quite similar to yours. he is my best friend and we are pretty close but i am afraid that if i confess our friendship will be affected too. in my opinion, the first thing that you should do is figuring out your own feelings. both about him and about coming out (?). i am a bisexual (or maybe a pan) so i can understand h...... reply
well, for me it's too early to say anything to you. We don't know yet. I mean, do you like your friend ? Do you love him? If yes, you can still try, I mean, staying true to your desires is a good thing.
At the same time, that's a bold move. I mean, if you're not sure if the friend likes you or not. At some point you feel it, if someone is giving y...... 1 reply
firstly just beat around the bush first?,, test the waters per say,, for me i just wait for months to see if i should confess or not and,, i actually did confess, it didnt went that well but thats fine ;^^ 1 reply
First, you should ask about their sexuality. There aren't a lot of things to do after the question, but if he asks why just say, "Idk just want to know you better" or something like that. I didn't really think about dating, myself, but my friends go through a lot which causes me to understand. The thing that you should be afraid of is what he would...... reply
