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A guy who confessed to me
Recently I was confessed to by a guy from work who is one of my best friends. Even though we are good friends, I can't bring myself to think of him this way. He is not my type at all, he is not very talented in any particular area, and he's not very athletic, but he is a really good guy. It is the first time I was confessed to (I'm 21). I've never dated anyone, and I wasn't going to in the next few years. That's why I wasn't planning on starting a relationship with him, but, I have a lot of flaws which he knows about, and I feel like if I miss this chance, no one will ever accept me for who I am like he does. What should I do?
You really might regret it later on, don't be with someone you don't like, ur life will be hell, for both you and him, only time will tell when you are truly ready to be in a relationship reply
First and foremost: there will always be people that will accept you for who you are as well as there are those who do not.
Now, as someone already wrote: life is not about banging - so what if he isn’t your type? You don’t need to get wet everytime you see him. So what if he doesn’t have talents? You’ll just learn stuff together and grow w...... reply
Oooook. So you seem to be stuck in a sticky situation with your best friend. He knows all of your flaws and accepts them, but that doesn’t mean you have to like them as well. There will be someone who will love your flaws and work on them with you, just because your best friend likes them it doesn’t mean he is meant for you. You have to also th...... reply
Don't feel pressured to go out with someone just because you are close to them and they tell you they like you. If you don't feel any attraction, you will only be uncomfortable in a relationship! This happened to me as well, but I accepted because I thought "if we're good friends maybe we'll date well too" even when I didn't have feelings. We later...... reply
Don't do it. I made this mistake and I am regretting it to this day. It was my very first relationship - I was 18 and got confessed by guy I didn't like nor found attractive. I didn't clearly say no, it lead us to some strange kind of relationship. Which was almost ok till the time when he wanted to go ahead and get intimate....long sad story which...... reply
I spend 3 years of my life with a guy I didn't love and not only did I waste my time but also his. Do not date someone unless you have feelings for that person and don't forget that you're still young with 21.
You will meet a lot of people in the following years and it's very likely that there will be a special someone, who not only accepts you bu...... reply
I might be a bit harsh but this is dumb, don’t date a guy you don’t like out of fear? You date someone because you like them and it’s ok to have standards, everyone does, but come on this is just stupid to resign yourself to date someone you are not attracted to because you still haven’t banged, life is more than dating and fucking 1 reply
