top and bottom vs their names

no, it's weird to reduce their existence to only what they're doing in bed when your argument is not related to it at all. It's like that's all you're seeing about them. I forgot names a lot, I'm usually going after their hair color, or call them "MC/ML". Or just go back to check their names. Like what are y'all doing when they're switching? ......   3 reply

I say main character and love interest and so, or refer to their hair colour and features. It feels wrong and weird to say top/bottom cuz its narrowing down to sex roles. Plus i never knew what is what for seme/uke but i never used it so.   1 reply

I have such a bad memory for names it's easier for me to call them seme/uke or I give them nicknames I'm actually impressed in myself if I can remember ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply

nah i don’t remember names nor do i call them top or bottom i call them by their hair or eye color   reply

Top and bottom is such a weird way of calling characters when you could just describe their physical appearance/design to refer to them lol   1 reply

Bruuu that’s so dehumanizing   2 reply

Used to call them "seme   reply