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Am I an asshole?
To sum it all, I came out to my brother as being demiromantic and lithromantic. I also told him what they meant and he said lithromantic just sounds like I'm an asshole. Pretty much we got into a whole argument, he called me an asshole for being lithromantic, and i called him homophobic. Overall he made me feel shitty for being lithromantic
I'm sorry but what the hell is a lithromantic? I googled and it means when someone is attracted but doesn't want to reciprocate? so you like them but don't want to be together?? how is that homophobic? I'm genuinely curious cuz aren't those two in levels of attraction to others rather than one being attracted to different genders?
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I literally had to google what that meant I support you you are perfect but I can’t be the only one that thinks the sexualities are getting out of hand there so many I cannot follow reply
Y.E.S. You're being an asshole towards the person you like and eventually dropped like a hot potato when they reciprocate your feelings.
ps. Don't mind the pic lol
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being lithromantic sounds like an excuse to behave like an asshole ngl. even if the sexuality is a thing, it doesn't mean you are exempt from being an asshole. 2 reply
Well if you don't tell the people you like that you are that then you start dating then yes you're an asshole but if you tell them before hand and they still wanna date you or be with you then no reply
What are you people on about???
NOBODY's an asshole for being something. The only way anyone's an asshole is if they ACT LIKE ONE....
Anyone calling you an asshole for simply being the way you are or feeling the way, you do, is actually the asshole!!!
As long as you don't actively walk around hurting people on purpose, you're not an asshole - th...... reply
Idk I don't think ur the asshole in this situation. Like if you are sure that this label fits you, then I don't think you're going to hurt anyone with it, it's not like ur going out, making ppl fall for u and then telling them u don't like them anymore, while fully knowing that this is how its going to be. Ofc u can always try to be in a relationsh...... reply
