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What am I??? Asexual???
I don't know. I'm confused about myself too. I usually have a crush on someone and about a week later I lose interest in him. It's weird. It happens all the time. Or am I just not interested to fall in love. I meant, I would like to have someone to talk, to share my memories and everything but I too stay and love them, I feel kinda troublesome. Am I the only one who feel like this??
Personally I’ve never had a genuine crush myself, though I don’t consider myself asexual. I want to be in a romantic relationship, too. I know I’m not aromantic because I do seek romance at some point, but I’ve also never held an interest in someone for long, therefore realizing that my crushes weren’t genuine. Sometimes I get a desire to...... 2 reply
It's totally normal to be confused! Especially if you are part of the veeeeery big and multifaceted greysexual category which is an undercategory of asexual. From what you wrote I'd say you might be a panromantic-grace (graysexual) person. I'm also part of that category. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ 2 reply
Hmm as far as know, ace don't feel sexually attracted to other people just like in my case. Can fall in love romantically, but not sexually. And also, its only natural to like then lose interest in them? Maybe you're not ready to fall in love yet, or to commit yet. Anyways, just take your time in knowing yourself, be patient to yourself too. :) don...... 1 reply
ahh!!* ifeel ur pain&ask myself the same question,,,, i'm kinda interested / invested in the relationship but shortly after that feeling iz gone; &i fall off the radar. it'z kinda a nuisance bc i genuinely do wanna form a connection but something clickz n it'z gone. truth iz ur not the onli one tht feelz like this, so plz don't fret 1 reply
Nope, I’m exactly the same. I’ve had a few crushes in my lifetime, but never wanted to pursue them. In middle school when all the girls went boy crazy I just couldn’t understand their desperate need to have the boy they liked look at them. I was always thinking “if they don’t like you, they don’t like you.”
Now that I am way older, I ...... 1 reply
Asexual is when you don’t have any sexual attraction to someone or desires/interest for sex.
You could be aromantic where you don’t desire a romantic relation or romantic attraction. I believe though there is a term that is closer to what you are feeling, I would just have to look it up again. But feel free to reach out to me and I would glad...... 1 reply