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Can I ask why people get offended about the fact that fujos read bl saying it's fetishsizing mlm but not a people who read straight romance. I mean if your gonna get mad about people reading bl then how your gonna be treated equal by people. I thought that was the goal of the LGBQT+ community. Just asking(sorry if this sounds dumb)
No ones offended when fujoshis read bl, we're offended if they or anyone in that fact fetishize which is what majority do. Another thing I really dislike about people like you trying to get your point across is bringing in straight romance. Straight people and people in the lgbtqia+ communtiy have never been on the same level, ever. Trying to compa...... reply
I don't think reading BL is necessarily a bad thing, but what IS a bad thing is feteshizing gay relationships. Does that make sense?? And idk what it is about people calling themselves fujoshis, but it seems a bit off to me... Also I feel like society already fetishizises straight couples- like whenever I have a friend that happens to be a boy peo...... 1 reply
Wow, i don't know whether i should call this bullshit or say it's really smart. You have a point, but you don't at the same time. wow, i'm confused. 1 reply
i think a lot of people are super invasive with gay couples, either mlm or wlw, asking stuff like "who's bottom and who's top", stuff like that
this is based on what i have seen from gay couples on the internet, granted most of the people who ask that are probably young but still inappropriate nonetheless 2 reply
I think what people call fetishizing is someone who reads yaoi just for the lemon, or who romanticizes rape and abusive things simply because they're two men but if it were an abusive straight relationship they would complain, people who says "I wanted to be a man just to be gay and date another man", the people who idealize gay couples, y'now? T...... reply
I have no idea why people do this. I believe it because being homosexual has because an increasingly more popular thing in media. Nowadays, it far more accepted to be gay than it would have been in the 90´s (which is a good thing don't get me wrong)
In the past being homosexual was seen as something disgusting by straight people, but now the tab...... 4 reply
some of y’all in the replies weird as hell
we hate fujos because they fetishize mlm relationships and get weird “smol uwu gay babies” “uke” “seme” shipping irl people, asking gay men invasive questions, whatever whatever. tf does that have to do with straight romance.
y’all oppress us and get mad when we fight back. some of y’all ...... reply
Hmm good question. I personally think it's not necessarily the act of reading bl but the manner and mindset with which you'd read bl.
When a fujo reads BL, they are reading about a demographic that is not them, which is great if done well, harmful if not. And more often it's the latter. Sadly, BL is mostly catering to the female audience, so there...... reply
