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my friend always calls me “ms.girl” even though I came out to her several times as trans boy, it makes me uncomfortable but I don’t know how to tel her to stop because I know she’ll still call me that
Tell her you feel uncomfortable communication is key. I'm pretty sure she just doesn't understand why you don't feel comfortable with it, as it's a super popular phrase, but if she does keep saying it after you've explained to her, maybe it's time to idk like distance yourself from her...? Friends shouldn't make you feel insecure, and belittle your...... 1 reply
I'm so sorry, maybe you should try to talk it out with her properly if she's not purposely doing it, I feel like that's the only way. and if she's doing it *on purpose* then.. you guys should probably take a break from each other..? I'm not sure, just do whatever you, yourself, feels comfortable doing. reply
Ever think that it's just a joke thing? Ik people are probably gonna get triggered at me, but it might just be a semi-dark humor thing. I know I'd do some annoying shit like that, so... 5 reply
I'm sorry but I think you should just straight up tell them you don't like them saying that to you and correct them if they do it again instead of just staying quiet letting them say it even though it causes you discomfort
but sometimes people do forget it's okay as long as they apologize and try to correct themselves but if your friend just keep...... reply
to me this sounds like how you address people as bro or sis because they’re your friends no matter their gender. I’m sure she recognizes the fact you are trans and wants to respect it, she just likes to address you like that, but if it’s really that serious to you then I think you should tell her that it feels like she’s being disrespectful reply