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okay so I hope I don’t get meme’d on becoz I’m genuinely asking if girls are able to fetishize lesbians? I usually see that girls are fetishizing over gays.. which leads me to another problem. Idk if I’m bi or not but girls turn me on but I haven’t been romantically attracted to a girl and idk if that’s considered fetishizing or smthn idk lol I just had a crisis mid-way during classes
I guess? But the fetishization of lesbians by girls prolly looks like "omg I wish a was a lesbian, it's so much easier than having to date shitty men" or smth? just the idealization of the lesbian lifestyle while confidently being a straight woman, I guess. also, for your situation, you can be sexually but not romantically attracted to women (and v...... reply
Lmao don't worry it's normal to be turned on by people or people having sex (orientation or sex/gender doesn't matter). It only becomes a problem when you become extremely obsessed with it that it affects those around you negatively (like an addiction almost). reply
You can fetishize anyone and anything but as long as your not looking at all living/walking/breathing lesbians or girls as a sex object I think your good.
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you’re not fetishizing anyone! i don’t want to assign anyone anything, but you could be bicurious rn, you don’t have to know. plus, you don’t necessarily have to have had a crush to suspect something is up, that would sort of play into the belief that you have to have sex to be proven a sexuality other than heterosexual :,) anyway, gist is,...... reply
Maybe you just haven't found a girl you're romantically attracted to yet... Or maybe you are only sexually attracted to women, that can happen too. One way or another you probably just started questioning your sexual orientation... It took me years to finally figure out and accept the fact that I was bisexual. For others it may take longer or shor...... reply
thanks everyone for replying highkey means a lot to me. didn’t check this question for a while cuz I cringed so bad at myself. anyways I might have to start thinking about a lot of things from now on LOL reply
Alr shawty listen up
Identity is wacky my dude! Fetishization is a whole different topic from attraction; if you're idealizing and objectifying someone, that's a different story from liking someone! You don't have to determine if you're bi based on whether you've had attraction or not. Discovery goes at a completely different pace for everybody!
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