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What do you think about this
so I've read this on tiktok comment. She said that straight girl should not read or watch bl because it's weird, also straight boys who watch or read gl. She said it's fetishizing wlw and mlm. And people who read/ watch yaoi/yuri are all not normal. What's your thoughts about this?
ive heard this too many times. as long as youre not fetishizing or putting it on/stereotyping actual gay couples, youre fine. its literally fiction. its like reading any other book/watching any other movie. it's not real and it doesnt affect anyone unless you purposefully do so. hopefully i dont have to say something so simple again loll reply
I think it's dumb to exclude a whole group of people from reading a genre, just don't fetishize it. It really isn't hard to read lgbt stories like a normal human being reply
I thought we already established that it is not inherently fetishistic. But at the same time, it’s undeniable that people do read BL/GL for those reasons— be it knowingly or subconsciously.
I also like how cishets are complaining about how they’re “talking over actual MLM/WLW.” Cause let’s not play dumb here, you’re only saying that ...... 2 reply
If people weren't reading bl/gl for whatever fucked up fantasies they have in their head about sexualities they aren't a part of, then they wouldn't even be reading bl/gl in the first place because they'd be reading lgbt+ content by lgbt+ people with the intention of portraying lgbt+ people properly. Or they genuinely think bl/gl *does* do that pro...... reply
This won't ever make sense to me... what if a pansexual or bisexual reads gl or bl?????? are they unable to fetishize then?? what if someone is nonbinary???? I know so many lesbians that read bl... Is that ok just because they are lesbians??????? what about asexuals that are also straight????? 2 reply
You can read a BL/GL story.BL and GL porn is not fucking okay. That's where I draw the line. Read a BL/GL story with smut in it? Cool! Masturbate on it? ...Uh, don't do that... Wanting to be a guy/girl so you can fuck a gay man/a lesbian? I will kill you and make it look like an accident.
Most BL are written by women, and they have no idea what it...... 2 reply
people who say that don't know shit about what "fetishizing" means. I've came across loads of people who are like that but I've learnt to ignore them because they're just stupid and can't think of a valid reason. 1 reply
It's not that it's wrong and they aren't normal, after all it's up to them and their personal decisions BUT after all this long ride on reading bl I've encounterd many people that when reading, comment things sexualising them such as "I can' watch straight relationships, it disgusts me but when I watch gay men it's different" and they are actually ...... reply
