Among us

I started playing among us again last week and i can't but feel weird because everytime i join a game they would start asking if i was a girl or boy and if i told them, they'd start saying things like, 'oh are you single? ','do have you have snap? '
I is in confusion, why yall play among us like it's a dating app??? You could possibly be flirting with a 12 year old there (´°ω°｀)