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Talking to Homophobic Family members
Will yall (anyone who hasn't told their family their sexuality, being trans, reading BL and GL, and everyone inbetween) ever tell your family about the things mentioned previously? Not now but in the future When you move out and stuff (if you are still living with them) Or will you never ever mention it? Oh and if you did already tell them how did they react?
Ah fuck, idk man.... I feel like if I ever tell my stepdad I’m trans masc, he’ll ACTUALLY kill me. I can’t lie to him tho either.... because i mean... eventually it will be pretty fucking obvious. My mother will probably think I’m delusional, which is fine. Whatever, you know? But my stepdad... I’m so afraid of his reaction.
My grandparen...... 1 reply
wishing everyone who has replied to this and are feeling alone and abandoned by their family all the best! i'm in a similar situation, and although it's horrible knowing some people won't accept you for who you are, there are also so many people in the same boat who will support you and love you regardless of your gender, sexuality or preferences. ...... reply
i would never tell my family only because my family is pretty homophobic asf (not my siblings tho). not to mention, VERY religious. when i was 10 my brother came out as gay (turns out he really wasn’t. he just said it bc he didn’t feel attraction towards anyone, so he mistook it for being gay) and my mom SPENT hours convincing him he wasn’t g...... reply
I tried to tell my mom once about a girl I liked and she just cut me off with "you're confused, it happens at your age" and I left it at that.
My brother asked me if I liked girls once and I said no because I was scared of him even if he probably wouldn't get mad about it.
As for my father I have no idea what he thinks about this topic, but I wou...... reply
Maybe I’ll tell my mom in the future that I’m bi but for now my closet is pretty comfy. I mean I’m lucky enough to have a mom that supports me no matter what but if my biological dad finds out I might just get beaten to death reply
my family probably cut ties with me if they find out I read bl and I don't have anything against lgbt community. Because both of them against my religion reply
