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Not being able to express yourself
I have a major problem about talking/dealing with people, i can't even talk with my family sometimes because i think i'm being a constant nuisance and it kinda makes me feel like the worse human being alive, people always say i distance myself from others and how I don't try to make friendships/relationships last, it's like something blocks me from telling them (and even messaging them) how i feel and it piles up until I end up having a panic attack and it sucks so much. I don't text anyone first, nor I call anyone first because i fear i would annoy my friends/family, i literally have a mental crisis everytime I'm sending someone a simple "hi" message.
Do any of y'all have a problem like this ? How do you cope?
my friend has social anxiety and these do sound like symptoms of it. perhaps try collecting some courage to talk to your parents/doctor about it? i wish you luck! reply
I really admire your courage for opening up. I feel and do exactly the same. It's been quite persistent and debilitating since my childhood. I'm a wreck in social and public situations so I avoid such as much as I could. I've been going to counseling sessions for many years (though sporadically and to different non~medical facilities) so I haven'...... 1 reply
That's... Well, you can't please everyone. If they have a disgust reaction, don't take it to the heart. It ain't that deep, some people just don't like you that includes your family reply
To add more context:
I started having these problems in 2015 after my birthday, i discovered some stuff about my "dad" and in 2016 my psychologist diagnosed me with Depression (it wasn't severe, and it's still with me unfortunately) , she also made me go to a psychiatrist who said it was a "normal" thing kids my age go through (lol? Yeah, he was a ...... reply
I sometime have this problem, it just hard for me to socialize in general and I don't feel like I need a whole lot of it.
any way what I do is I write my feeling down on a piece of paper, don't even worry about the spelling just get it all out.
when you done reread it if you feel the need.
After you done just rip it in to little piece so no one ...... 2 reply
I get it, I have difficulty too. I'm always scared of annoying others, when I'm texting somebody I'm always second guessing, and start overthinking, even if it's a simple text, I get anxious about offending or annoying others in some way. Same for phone calls, I get anxious. Since I'm no good at reading the room in general, I have even more difficu...... reply
