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What's the first thing you notice about a person?
When you interact with someone new, what's the first thing you notice/what catches your attention first and why?
- Height - Face - Fashion style - Smell - Voice - Body gestures/language - Other
For me, it's definitely either smell or voice. I dislike perfume so I'm more comfortable with people who don't use it. I also notice voice because their tone really helps in knowing how the interaction is going (?)
before covid: probably how they enteract with people/me. do they figet and seem nervous? are they outgoing? shy?
during covid: basically "did they just cough" & "are they wearing a mask"
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Voice and eyes. Eyes because I can maintain eye contact with people pretty well, and they're all so beautiful. Everyone's eyes are truly so beautiful and mesmerizing. And voice because it's just something you hear ig? Voices are pretty hard to forget. 1 reply
I know this is really shallow but it would be height. I don't want to but I'm really short, so I'm just wondering why everyone is so tall. (〜￣△￣)〜 1 reply
it’s hard for me to look people in the eye so one thing i really focus on is tone and sometimes body language. i feel as if i’m a boring person so i pay attention to these things to make sure like ‘hey is this person really interested in anything i have to say?’ reply
For me, personally, I can't really say that I notice any one thing first. I kind of take it in all at once and it all kind of mashes together. Appearance wise, anyways. What I pay attention to is linking their appearance and personality. Are they mean to me? Snappy? Do they look tired or are they just bitching 'cause they probably suck as a person,...... reply
Their sense of fashion (or lack there of). I like seeing the nice outfits I'm too lazy/depressed/broke to wear. A common thought is "I think I might wear that if just getting out of bed wasn't so damn difficult." reply
I think for me its smell and voice. I have really bad vision like im legally blind vision so the rest I can barely tell about a person. If they smell like cinnamon or flowers I immediately simp no matter who they are but not the weird kinda simp the kinda simp where you admire them a lot. reply
body language. im observant so it’s easy for me to tell if someone’s anxious or not and i’ll adjust my words and actions to make them feel more comfortable. 2 reply
