was 14 when i had one of those big online debuts and there was this girl i somehow became instantly friends with cuz of so many similarities. we seemed to uuuuuuh idk understand each other probably - thats what i thought. there was visible and obvious flirting from her side but for a while i just thought she was being super nice and friendly or som...... 2 reply
Okay, this is going to sound extremely dumb, but hindsight is 20/20 so... Also this is gonna be a long rant coz I don't have the courage to tell this to any of my irl friends lmao
SO, there was this internet friend I had, and we'd connected almost instantly (this is pretty rare coz I'm really shit at any kind of not-face-to-face communication, to p...... 4 reply
VERY SIMPLE ANSWERalso cause I made out with a friend at the ripe ass age of 11 n thats how I knew I also liked dudes, experience is all the answers ur gon get ong 1 reply
a lot of things factor in that i think. all i can say is, take your time, you don’t have to figure out everything and be certain about it right away. plus, after all, sexuality is a spectrum and it is also fluid. sometimes you don’t even have to put a label on it if that’s how it works best for a person and that’s perfectly fine.
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If u wanna do stuff with the same sex - bi or gay. U can also be bi with a preference and just because u hook up with the opp/same gender doesn't make u any less bi. Just means u got a preference reply
I figured I was a greedy bastard who wanted the best of both worlds, but like ion really think there's need for a label fr, just date whatever you're attracted 2 3 reply
I low-key hate men. I'm bi, so I'm still attracted to some of them but damn do most of them suck. I find myself regularly checking out women, so that’s a pretty obvious indication. You don’t sound bi though, kissing someone of the same gender is no big deal. If you’re unwilling to have sex with them, then it’s pretty obvious you’re straig...... reply
I looked at all the labels they had and chose the one with the nicest name. Deadass, just choose based on name and move on with ur life. Don’t worry about what “rules” there are to qualify for a specific label, just do it offa vibes only. If u don’t fw any labels but still wanna be in the queer community, just call yourself queer. reply
just take your time, explore and experiment.
sexuality is a spectrum, there's no need to force yourself into a specific box or label. of course, self identity issues are a thing and you may want to find a label or group you identify with, all i can recommend you do is experiment and explore yourself and your sexuality until you find what you like b...... reply
