So basically I came out as non-binary. No one knows but my cousin and two friends and I'm quite sick of my name. It's boring and I hate it. So my two friends decided I should be called Sock/Socks(don't ask). And so i go up to my mom and say i want a new nickname. I tell her that since socks are always mismatched and that my clothes barely ever match, I should be called Sock. And she told me fine, as long as i make sure to do my insulin. I'm so fucking happy. I basically came out to her without actually coming out and she doesn't suspect a thing. Its amazing. Anyways, how was your day so far?
In reality it’s all up to you to choose what you want to label yourself but I think more than a straight person having a “gay moment” I think it would be super safe to call yourself bisexual, even if you’ve never been with a girl before, because it’s the thought of wanting to date a girl or wanting to be more intimate with a girl somethin...... reply
I didn’t get to come out.
I was forced out by my mom after she found my journal.
She slapped me.
She apologized later, but it was hard to forgive her.
I tried coming out as trans to her, but she laughed at me and said being nonbinary/gender fluid is a fake thing that people make up for attention. (she still misgenders me and crap too)
I’m out...... reply
i(female) actually came out accidently bcoz i had broken up with my girlfriend and was pretty sad so when my mum asked me what happened i just accidentally told her that i broke up with my girlfriend and she was like "you're lesbian?" and i was like "shit" and told her that i was bisexual and she was like "oh okay so? do you want some chocolate or ...... reply
Maybe this wont help you at all... but when I came out as bi to my mom, I did it completely randomly in a conversation we had about life in general. I was a grownup, but since I hadn't ever dated a woman (I'm a cis woman myself) I hadn't felt the need to say it.
I knew she wouldn't mind since, I grew up surrounded by gay family friends, and she di...... reply
When I came out as bisexual my mom was like "hey me too".
I'm lucky 'cus my mom always told me it's okay to be what I am and "don't get hurt and hurt others..too much".
Also my grandma asked me like couple years ago "do you have boyfriend? No? Oh how about girlfriend? Oh also no..Well do you have friends?" that was super pure. reply
When I came out to my mom she was happy that there won‘t be any unwanted pregnancys and that my sister and I won’t ever fight over the same boy. My sister didn’t care at all. I still have to come out to the rest of my familie, but I’m scared. I‘ll probably tell them in a few years or when I‘m thirty lol. Most of my friends are not strai...... reply
