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Should I Break Up?? [Question]
Joey
10 05,2020
Serious question I've had and I need some advice honestly...
I've recently started dating this girl, it has been perhaps about 4 months and things aren't looking too well. One of the reasons is because of the quarantine and then there are some emotional reasons, some really petty reasons but overall I just don't know what to do. Personally, she is the first person I have ever dated. She, on the other hand, has dated others before me. Mostly other girls as she thought she was lesbian before we met....something I'm just really confused about but she's never made me not feel like she doesn't like me. So I dont see that as a problem.

Because of the recent quarantine that has been affecting everyone everywhere around the world, the whole issue of not going to work is causing her a lot of stress, she is not someone that can be at home. Not at all, she prefers to go out and do things outside rather than stay inside the house and play video games or watch movies/series. So we clash a lot in that sense. Which really doesn't bother me, we can compromise most often. However, when it comes to doing certain things, like go watch a movie she likes I will try to say no if I don't feel up to it but she will still force me to go. But when its vice versa she just rejects entirely, I thought that perhaps she would want to do the things I want eventually but she still doesn't and says she won't. At first I thought it was okay, I wasn't gonna force her and then again I thought it would be good for me to try new things. I mean I try to show interest in the things that she likes but she doesnt want to show interest in the things that I like, not only that but I feel like she judges me for liking anime/manga and other things that relate to that. I know some people arent interested in it, and shes told me that she has no problem with it but just wont go out of her way to try and watch it or read it. But at this point I feel like I'm stuck.

Then there's the whole thing of dating and living together....the earliest she wishes to move in together is 6 months and the latest would be 1 year...I don't know about that. To me I would expect at least 5 years before moving in together, to me that is enough time to get to know someone...but when I say that she just laughs and says no, that's not what we're doing. Honestly to me that's just a lot of stress and I've tried talking to her about it...she won't change her mind even so, I mean that doesn't bother me but more so just puts stress on me and I wish she could take into consideration how I feel about it.

I really don't know what to do, like I've tried explaining to her countless times about things like those or about how I'm allergic to dogs and, she has a dog, she has it sleep on the bed all the time so I'm constantly having problems with sleeping when I go over to her house. I mean...these arent exactly big big problems but I'm constantly stressed about what I could say to her to make her try to understand. Or, because I'm not the most affectionate guy, I'm constantly watching what I say to her because she's very sensitive and cries for a lot of things...which is fine, I get she's just a little sensitive I have no problem with that. But all I'm ever really doing is apologizing and comforting her...
Well anyway, I just need some advice or if I can do something or if I just need to break up with her. I mean I would prefer not to since I do like her, but I feel like I just wasn't prepared for dating yet. Or at least I don't want to move at the pace she wants to move at.
10 05,2020
I want to focus on my studies more soooooo yup SINGLE LIFE even though some of my friends are in a relationship,I myself sometimes feel tempted as well but nah no one would like an ugly banana like so me XDD   2 reply
05 04,2020
I can get clingy and I have low self-confidence, so I end up getting paranoid. I also never take the first step because I'm afraid of destroying the friendship that's already there.   reply
05 04,2020
I'm a lesbian, and its so hard to find another lesbian who's into me. Also I'm scared of love cause I've never dated someone before.   1 reply
05 04,2020
Honestly it's because I'm afraid. I had my first love and never confessed because I was always scared to be shot down. My self-confidence is lower than hell itself. Most people tell me I'm good at hiding how I feel so thats also another problem because not many people know how I'm feeling and I like it that way. I don't want someone to figure out e......   reply
03 04,2020
well first off im super self conscious, shy, and i have an unreasonable expectation when it comes to love bc of anime and mangas.also my type is rlly rare to come by so i dont rlly get many crushes.also i have a huge fear of being rejected so i rarely shoot my shot ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭   1 reply
03 04,2020
i've been into a relationship before and i have given my all to that person. then suddenly, we broke up and i'm telling you that was my biggest downfall. love is indeed scary. i thought i already suffered enough but no, unexpected things happened and now, he's gone, literally. i don't have any plans of moving on. i'm still holding into that memorie......   reply
03 04,2020
Oh dear, there's nothing to worry about. If he asked you out then why not try to date him, you won't find the answer from us I tell you but always remember, Love is in all shapes, color, sizes and sexuality. I know my advice is making you nervous or feel more confused, but communication is the key and you both are ment to be then it will be alrig......   reply
03 04,2020
Being single [Answer]
Fck it up Seokjin
03 04,2020
Oh there are times when I feel that black hole in my chest thinking about how nice it would be in a relation or something like that, but it's more of a small sting than a punch in the gut lmao. What i do is just the usual things that makes me happy with my youth, and I always just laugh about thinking on that trivial matter (relationship thingz). ......   reply
03 04,2020
I'm gonna tell you honestly, my parents promised me they'd buy me a car and a house if I stayed single until I graduate college (we even made a contract and I was in 6th grade back then lol) I had crushes asking me out and even people from other schools/university who I don't even know, hitting me up in my inbox. I wasn't interested in dating an......   3 reply
03 04,2020

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