This is an unusual yaoi - both are manly and quite muscly, there's talk of switching (but the uke expresses a firm preference for bottoming) and they are friends first, really slow burn. The moment 'liking' is confessed is not forceful, no one kisses/rapes anyone and they go on like before, albeit a lot more confused about their sexuality. Attempted and aborted cross-dressing, reasons for which may have gone over my head? It's got the spirit though? Art is beautiful and a lot of effort goes into drawing the bodies. I remember reading Uchida Kaoru during my mid-2000s hardcore manga phase, but her art is worlds different now.
Hoshi wo Kazoeru Koto