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Been in her position and I can actually vouch how shitty that feeling is. I don't really think her bf loves her the way she does. He is not abusive and is good to her but that's it. There is fondness from his side because she is good to him and they know each other for a long time but he definitely doesn't much attraction towards her if his eyes are wandering even after being in a relationship with her for 10 years. Very sad. Not a douchebag but definitely not a lover. Fond of her but not in love and is miles away from taking the next step. Somehow this type of relationship is worse at times since it boggles ur mind and at the same time makes it hard to break it off too.