I think you'd be classified as Pansexual. As a pansexual myself I love someone for their personality and not for their gender If you are more comfortable with that label that might be good. Pansexuals do not care about gender. Whatever you go by I'll totally support that.Also about your plan it might change, and there may be someone who could chang...... reply
Sooo... I have this crush and last month we somehow got married on Discord- and we have children but thing is during the time I proposed to my crush on Discord I officially asked them out but they didn't exactly reject me but told me they weren't ready for a relationship... and recently they did this Q&A on their instagram story and one of the questions they were asked was "What's your status relationship" and my crush responded with "I have a wife (AKA me)" and also putting "Taken, i guess to put it short" and now I'm literally confused if we're actually together- cause I thought we agreed that we weren't dating but just getting married jokingly and I literally don't know what we are to each other anymore