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I wrote this in response to Mi Amore Anon but I thought I'd also put it as a separate post as they've responded to a lot of people discounting their feelings because other sexualities exist. I responded to their comment on their own thread as well. I thought I'd respond to you here because I disagree with you. I agree that there are many kinds of......

and the trope of "I didn't know I liked men before I met you". Bitch. You don't need to fuck a man to be attracted to them. If a 40 years old man tells you that he didn't know that he liked men before he tried it out, he lies through his teeth. You can deny the attraction but it will still be here, even if you don't fuck.

It's really annoying and misleading. I honestly don't know if it's the straight x gay trope, the I like girls but I love you (a guy) cliché or just the authors genuinly not knowing/caring about sexuality. However, I've read a few mangas where they actually say a character is bi or 'he swings both ways' so I guess this genre is slowly evolving an......

I think a lot of yoai fetishizes "turning the straight guy gay", rather than saying outright that a guy can like both women AND YOU (the gay protag). It stems from that stupid "pick a side" biphobia that is present in society. I only see obvious bi characters when they have a kid with someone first and their spouse leaves OR they had some (badly wr......

You can! It’s the same thing as cutting off toxic friends; you can do that to your family as well. Though it may be slightly hard at first, you get used to not having them by your side. I’d say it’s best to change phone numbers, move into a quiet neighborhood or just one that seems alright and far away from them, and completely ghost them. St......

Thank you for all your reply. Before I posted this, I actually consulted with my friends first. They have different opinions than me. They want me to reconsider my decision and think about my mother's situation. My mother wasn't always mean. She just too stressed out sometimes and I don't understand her so we get into arguments then and now. They s......

27 is old enough to have a home of your own. In fact, parents should have let you go and do your stuff, be free and all that. Your mom’s being controlling and will continue to do so if you will not leave her roof. If you can earn money on your own already then there’s really nothing holding you back except your mom and seeing that she’s toxi......

First thing is first, how are you lazy? You work a 9-6 job. You have a right to be tired and wanting to rest after coming home and having a calm weekend. I'm not saying it's good to sleep all day, but you are far from lazy friend. I will say, you and I have some similarities. I just turned 27 and live with my mom, and though we have fights, she doe......

I don't think you should be ashamed, but know when the right time is. Like on your first date or first time being intimate with a person, don't suddenly tell them that you're into heavy S&M or that you enjoy yellow showers or something. Tell they eventually, maybe start out more mild and then ease into the more kinky stuff. Everyone has their own t......