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Then tell me. What do you think is the relationship between those words ? (I won't do your essay for you, but depending on what you'll reply, I might help, give some ideas and even give you a push for the start.) For which course do you need this essay, to what extent can you talk about it ?

Start by defining what is a word, what can you do with words, the history of words, what are the most common used words.

Than define what is love, what shapes and forms it can come in, what is the history of it.

After defining those two i think you'll have a better understanding what the relationship between the two.

And if you still don't know just ask yourself how can i define love? what words can i use to define it? what other people think about it ?

Thank you so much just the point of view I was looking for

It never hurts to try to ask her. I hated my counselor back when I was a senior but I still went on to ask her in order for a schedule change. Btw why are you scared of her? Is she condescending like mine? Does she act like kids are the reason why she hates her life sort of thing?

i haven't finished my ap bio summer homework that's due tomorrow and aaaaaaaaaah

RIP BRO

Your heart flutters, skips a beat
You’re excited to see him everyday
You get jealous or a stinging feeling when he’s around a different girl
You enjoy him
Kept staring at him
Nervous around him
Likes his company
You think about him a lot
If you can’t imagine being without him
You can picture a future
You use effort for him

Well anyways, hope this helped. Good luck (づ￣ ³￣)づ

What do you mean « mixed feelings »? Do you like him or not?

I think what they mean is they're not sure if the feelings of affection they have for the guy is platonic or romance because it's been a while since they had a guy friend.

*romantic oop

Uhhh, well if you think about kissing him does it make you feel conflicted? Because if you think about your other friends, your immediate thought would usually be a straight up "no". I guess that can clear up a few things.

Shit dude...been there done that..he liked me back...quite obvious...and once I started to like him...he stopped liking me back...soooooo yeahh I guess I was too late...and when I confessed to him...he only just stood quite...and for that I was kinda angry, sad, and a bit annoyed...so every since then...i Kinda idk...feel sad and angry at him but mainly at myself for being too late...

The only difference between platonkc and romantic is wether or not you want to date the person. It’s hard for me to believe some people doesn’t know what they feel

Not everyone’s great at social cues, y’know. I’ve personally had this sort of problem because I’ve always been in an all girls school until I reached college. I’m sure OP has a different kind of circumstance than mine but personally, I couldn’t tell when I was in college because I barely interacted with men.

It’s ridiculous when I think about it now but that’s the circumstances I was brought up. I couldn’t tell if I was happy simply because I finally got a first guy friend or affectionate because I might have feelings for them.

well, I personally do not ship any one piece characters (side character maybe) because I like to focus more on the shonen aspect (esp the fights) but I am fine with people shipping one piece characters as long as they do not make toxic comments to others. Oda said that one piece wouldn't have any real romance in the series. In the end, I believe he might just show the characters in an epilogue chapter that shows their lives in the future.

ooOOo shanks and makino is cute.. i didn't finish watching all of one piece because i started watching it this summer.. im on 570 something rn. so far... i kinda ship luffy and nami. and kind of zoro and robin. idk im more luffy and nami than zoro and robin tho lol

I also ship nami and luffy but since Oda said there will be no romance which part of me is glad that there's isn't and so I just don't want to get my hopes up ╮(￣▽￣)╭

lolol i dont strongly ship any characters in one piece because i like seeing them grow as a group and not separate the group because of love reasons and stuff :) sometimes i need a break from all the action tho lol we need a little bit of love and spice once in a while lol

oh yea i kind of ship tashigi x smoker too :)

Zoro x sanji arw my favorite favorite ship also my otp

Yes but like why, they just out here existing

That’s still bi/trans/lesbo/homophobic but go off ig.

so it sounds like it's not really that you don't support the LGBT community, it's just not something you have a strong opinion on. They can do what they want is what I think you are essentially saying. So, I think you need to find better words to express that opinion or just finish your damn sentence "I don't support the LGBT community, but I'm not against them either" People will understand you when you find the right words to communicate it.

What Yumi said, you literally have no reason to “not support” them. Stop acting like this is some horrible thing you’ve been struggling with because YOU feel like a victim. People like YOU are why 30% of female trans teens have attempted suicide at some point in life. People like YOU are why 26 trans women were MURDERED in 2016. People like YOU are why suicide is the second leading cause of death in LGBT youth. People like YOU are why LGBT members don’t feel safe coming out of the closet or their own fucking home. People like you are why there’s one less gay/lesbian/bi/trans person on the earth almost every day. I don’t care if this makes your feel bad, because it fucking should.

And yet you still have read Yaoi manga, it’s on your page. Don’t read media about gay men if you don’t support them you fucking dipshit.

hey i just want to tell you that i respect you and love you! can we be friends? seriously what you said is ... gold <3

okay, homophobe.

And people like YOU should understand I dont feel like a VICTIM nor do i want other people to see it that way. My use have words should have been phrase better so that people don't misunderstanding what i am saying. Putting my emotions/feeling into word's is hard for me. Yes go ahead throw facts at me to help me understand but please is cursing goona help and thank you.

*** my use of words *** grammer is my weak point

I understand you. I don’t really have an opinion on it but it seems like I have to support it. Like oh, you’re bisexual? Okay. I don’t really have a strong opinion about it, I would not call ourselves homophobic because that’s a whole other level of rudeness.

homophobic wasn’t really the right word. i just think its really..ignorant to feel that way :/ especially since they literally are reading yaoi/BL but still basically saying “yanno I don’t support the lgbtq community” is disgusting and they are pretty much just fetishizing gay men/ people but don’t like the ACTUAL gay men/ people. its dumb.

If you are bad at putting emotions into words then don’t. Just get to the point and admit you’re lgbtphobic.

listen as a lesbian myself it doesn't matter if you support it or not. just respect us and we'll respect you. it's all a matter respect.

I feel like this person is confuse I mean literally they said "Those 6 words that I have yet to understand" and "But (my definiton ) it means I don't support nor do I hate the LGBT community." This person over here barely know shit and y'all given shit back like damn help the poor person understand

Ummmmmmmmm...... so like u confuse or what

oooh? So you don't care about it? that's so cool, you hardly ever see neutrals. you do you boo ヾ(☆▽☆)

I somewhat doubt this person is making people kill themselves. Read what they said, they're not saying they hate all lgbtq+ people, they're saying that they aren't apart of it and they don't care what the people in the community do with their lives. The person didn't even say anything other than idk I'm just not interested in people's sex lives! What's wrong with that?

Another thing, why can't they read yaoi manga? Is there a problem witht that? I don't specifically support the production of cocoa beans but I enjoy the pleasures of chocolate. Does that mean people can't have chocolate if they don't do that?

And don't call them a "fucking dipshit" just because they don't have an opinion about YOUR sexuality.

The only reply that makes sense,thank you for showing me that not everyone jumps from "you don't support" *that means "you must hate and you're the problem"

Basically, you don't care as long as they don't stomp on you... Relate!!! xD That's also my opinion on all the humans in this world. I don't effing care if they go to war as long as humans don't hurt those that I care about. xD (I'm gay by the way xD)

Hi I'm going through this comment section to defend this person because they're allowed to have an opinion.

So, how are they homophobic?

Is it because they don't support the Lgbtq+ community? I assume that you either didn't read it correctly or interpretted it wrong.

There is a difference between not supporting and hating the lgbtq+ community. While those who hate the lgbtq+ community often don't support it.

Those who don't support it, often don't hate nor love the community. "Not supporting" is the absence of supporting, not hating the community.

They have no opinion on it and don't want to try to be apart of it because they have no opinion on it.

So iam the only who see it this way. This person does not know where to stand is confuse, clueless or does not understand well enough . Does not give hate or love. Leans more to being neutral. Thats what I got

Hi again ^_^
It's not ignorant, they just not interested in the lgbtq+ community and are interested yaoi. Just because you don't have an interest in trees doesn't mean you can't have an interest in books

People. Are. Allowed. To. Have. Opinions.

Just because they can't type well doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to express themselves. They're not lgbtphobic, they just don't care if the lgbtq+ people are roaming around or not.

Stop telling them to shut up because they don't have an opinion on stuff.

Bro, you cool but I think the person does understand, they just don't care if lgbtq+ people are roaming or not.

With all due respect, I dont think this thread quite understands what supporting the LGBT community means.

Supporting the LGBT community simply means letting us exist without discriminating or critisizing.

When you say you don't support the LGBT community, we assume you dont like gay people or transgender people - since we cannot understand why you would be against an entire indentification for existing, (its like saying you dont support blondes) hence bubblegums anger.

The reading yaoi arguement is a little hypocritical, like if you dont support gay people, how come you like reading stories about men touching eachothers dicks?

Just my two cents ╮(￣▽￣)╭

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they're..... people

ヾ(☆▽☆) thankyou for understanding my opinion and I totally get what you are saying, I just assume support as in the definition bit plus what ever is supported but if that's how you interpret it as I can understand why some people would be outraged. Idk I just thought it was obvious that the original opinion was having the same defintion as mine. Thankyou for your two cents (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

You triggered people here. xD
But I personnally get your point.
Instead of calling people homophobic, how about saying what support means ?
How do you "support" a community you're not even part of ? Like I'd go around "hey bro ! You're gay ? Stay strong, I'm with you" or "hello, I'm hetero and I support lgbtq." as "support" in "help/encourage"?
Or maybe "support" as in "aknowledge" it ? Well, I aknowledge lgbtq: "yes, they like same genre/weren't born in the right body." that's all. More like I don't care. They do whatever they want with their life. That's all there is to it to me.
I have gay friends. I don't care about what they do in bed. It doesn't concern me, they're still my friends. If it pleases people to call this "support" then, call it support. It won't change them, nor you. You don't arm them in anyway, that's what matters.

lmao its free speech, support them or dont, idc.

Honestly,what do you think supporting means? It means that if someone around me tells me that they are lgbt, I won't change my behavior around them,I won't tell them they are sick or abnormal,I won't ask them to change themselves and I continue being a good supportive friend. Supporting lgbt doesn't mean I want everyone to be lgbt or I'll shame them if they are not. That's why you can't say "I don't support them and don't hate them either", it's just a weak attempt of keeping both homophobes and lgbt supporters on good terms with yourself and it always FAILS. Develope an actual opinion ,not some statement that doesn't mean a thing when you actually think logically about it. That statement is just lazy,that's why people get angry when they hear it.

Hi, I've decided to be white knight for this post becuase I have no life. Why should they develop an opinion? If they're straight and they have no stake holdership in this then why should they be forced to make an opinion.

It's not lazy, they just don't have a reason to be involved since I assume they're straight

And by the way, "support" check the definition, another person pointed out your defintion BUT for alot people, myself including, support means to actively go yes I like lgbtq+.

I'm straight too and I support lgbt, do I have anything to earn from this?nope,but I want the society to be a better place for other people too,they have the right to feel they belong in their society just like I do. If someone is white does it mean they shouldn't have any opinion about the prejudice against people of color? Does being a man mean they shouldn't have an opinion on misogyny? Is this justifiable? Or is it just plain lazy and selfish to only think about myself and ignore what goes on in the society.

Thats ok, glad you're so understanding ^_^

Well that's your opinion, you can't force people to be interested in stuff they're not interested in. As much as yeah, it's good if people help people stigmatized against, you can't force them to have an opinion.

And if you haven't realised, this whole experience with this goddamn comment section could be the reason the person starts hating the lgbtq+ community.

If a person is neutral let them be neutral.

and oh, if you'll refer to my username when you insult me.

The wage gap isn't real, there is no pink tax and I swear to god if you shove that rape statistic down my throat I will throw it up and shove it up your ass.

Let people have opinions you close minded person, it doesn't matter if you're trying to help people, if you shove your opinion onto someone, you're a "bigot" just like people who justify throwing stones at lgbtq+ people.

What?! When did I insult you or your username?what are you talking about?

I'm not forcing my opinion on anyone,but when someone shares their opinion they should know that there will be people who disagree. Honestly,why are you trying to make a villain out of me? All I tried to do was bring reasons as to why being neutral isn't really a thing in this situation;you are not forced to accept my reasons,we are just debating a subject.

Misogyny has nothing to do with wage gap and whatever else you mentioned and it exists in the world,it might not be as big in the first world countries but it is a huge deal in a lot of others.

Why do you keep insulting me?do I not have a right to share my opinion?anyone opposing you is close-minded?

I never said they were, it’s people like them. You “fucking dipshit”.

Are you saying that you used a similie for no reason? You obviously insinuated that it is the people who don't have an opinion about lgbtq+ are the ones killing people. Which I believe is entirely untrue, it's the people who hate lgbtq+ people the ones making people uncomfortable, don't pin assholes onto people who are neutrals.

I somewhat doubt that I am the "Dipshit" considering I "insult" people by pointing out the fact that they are wrong, not by using basic af insults such as "fucking dipshit", but you know, I could be wrong (づ￣ ³￣)づ

I think, maybe, what he/she's trying to say about people who doesn't have an opinion (are the one's killing them), is that, people who don't take action and are simply neutral is also responsible for what is happening to the memeber's of LGBTQ+...

And somehow, that would make sense in a way. Neutral parties will not take action, therefore they will simply watch whatever is happening. And that would be much worse. I agree with everyone than having no opinion doesn't make the person homophobic, but we also must remember that, without action, and simply watching, is also a choice with consequences.

There has been a lot of LGBTQ+ members who have been bullied and hurt in public, and although there are some who would stand up and help them, there are still a lot of those who would simply watch or ignore what is happening.

damn your yearbook is expensive.

Get one after your senior year. Those are gonna be your final high school memories.

flip a coin to decide

I've never cracked my yearbook open once ever since I graduated 10 years ago lol. I guess it depends on how precious your high school years are. To you, I mean.

That's sad. Imma be a Junior. My condolences
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lol, luckily- I start on the 27th

Same. I start seniorhood on the 12th

Lol I’m in the same boat dunt worry (⌒▽⌒)

You guys start the school in August ??
For me it’s in September (•_•)
And I finished high school T.T

Because quirkless Deku had heroic characteristics. Bakugo who had a powerful quirk, felt inferior to a quirkless at an early age, and started hating him for "not knowing his place as a quirkless". Don't quote me though, I'm paraphrasing. That's basically the start of the hate. And after Deku "develops" a quirk, it just adds fuel to the fire.