biggest turn off in yaoi: when uke says “stop” “wait” or “no” and mangaka portrays it as a moan/as something sexy and seme barely notices he says it. like wtf do u say if u feel uncomfy/want to stop? referring to vanilla sex not bdsm obv so there’s no safe word (im aware its smut n they aren’t going to stop, but like.. bffr) OR when......
