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You know what I hate? When ppl don't know what empathy is. HE is depressive. He wants some time alone to figure out what's going on.
Yes he is a parent but in the end he is human too. And nobody is perfect.
Everyone needs a time out.

So does Hyesung have empathy? If he does, he won’t refuse his child and let his child has the same trauma as him. As an adult and a parent, you can grieve, you can have trauma, but you need to remember, you have another responsibility to yourself and to people around you he can isolate for some time though, but if it’s too long, he and his mother are no different

No emphaty? Take a good look. He felt so much pain when he saw byul. He felt guilty doing that to him. If that is no emphaty then I don't know what it is. I would understand if he looked at him with no feeling, didn't care at all, feeling nothing at all... that you are reacting like that but to say that he can't feel depressiv eventhou he is just 20 or maybe 22 Years old boy who didn't even knew that he is an omega and as soon he found out he got pregnant. He never was ready. HE NEVER HAD THE CHANCE TO RECOVER. And through the whole story you can see how much of a child he is. Doesn't know anything-HOW?!? HE NEVER GOT RAISED THE RIGHT WAY. NEVER SAW WHAT A REAL FAMILY IS. NOBODY IS PERFECT. EVERYONE DOES MISTAKES AND IT IS NOW DOJINS JOB TO HELP HIM AND SHOW HIM HOW.
what I am trying to say is... If someone has a hart time and just can't go on, your partner should help him to find the right path. Dojin should take care of byul until hyesung is again stable enough.
He just needs time to heal. And rest. He is fucking depressed.
Look I am not trying to fight you just trying to explain how fucking unfair it is to judge him.
We don't know what his final decision is. If he is going to leave byul and really going to become the same as HIS own parents than go ahead and hate him as much as you want.
But as long as he just wants to recover just stfu up and wait what's he gonna do.
It's not like Dojin won't take care of byul! As you can see he tries his best to be a good husband to him. He understands that he needs time right now and hopefully Hyesung will recover and goes back to the way he was.
Sorry for my aggressive answer.

He rejected Byul twice, one when Byul was born, and currently rejecting him, if this is irl he will be called shitty parents. From Heeso’s dialogue he’s been acting like this for days, once you have children you need to behave like a proper adult. Nobody is ready for a child even if they think they are ready. Anyway, i did not say i was against him being depressive, he can. But he need to solve his issue faster, being a parent is like this, you can prioritise your feelings, but only in a short time. I, as a parent, will never want my child to have the same trauma as me, i want them to have normal childhood, not the pain of being rejected by me. To sum up, i only want him to deal with his feelings faster and not being depressive for days until you have to be called out by your friend. when you’re too involved with emotions you go astray by the end of the day it all comes to what is your priority in your life, which even Hyesung doesn’t solve this yet himself. Anyway no biggie, we both have different idea of life, if there’s no people like you and me, the world will only be in one colour.

for me i would js yeet my child away-i don’t give two fucks if it’s my kid but don’t disrespect dogs and ppl like that