I tend to dwell on things and this is something that bothers me a lot. I don't know if I believe in destiny, since it seems like quite a big commitment, I mean, if someone kept having bad experiences one after another, can that really be called destiny? or simply just the cruel reality of the world? It doesn't seem fair to believe in destiny if someone has a pretty smooth sailing life while another struggles time after time, which is why destiny is something that I'm uncertain about. If destiny is real, then are we all destined to find happiness and receive love?
Things have not been that great for me, for quite some time, nothing seems to be going right and i can't understand why...which is why i want to know what other people's opinions are about whether love and happiness are obtainable for everyone. I believe everyone is entitled to happiness and love and deserves it, but when it comes down to it, can anyone grasp it and maintain it and truly lead a happy life?
(I don't think there is truly a proper answer but i want to know how others view these types of things)
I dont believe in destiny. It's all about going out and who you meet along the way.
You can definitely be happy.. but with the help of "destiny"? I don't think so. People should take matters into their own hands.
Sometimes people have to heal something with themselves before the love they desire appears. You mentioned people who have bad experience after bad exp...there is a reason they are attracted to the wrong type of partner, some self analysis could help them break from the pattern. Anyway, I do think love and happiness are obtainable for those who actively seek it but I don't believe everyone is entitled to or deserves it--there are true as$holes out there, you know. Saying things like 'destiny' makes it sound like it doesn't require hard work, compromise etc. to find love or keep a relationship going. Love doesn't just happen, we don't fall into it willy nilly. We click with someone and then actively do something about it (e.g. woo them). IMHO
I do believe that everything that happens is destìned to be but I also believe that as a human being I still have a say in the things that are happening, which makes for example my decisions a part of my destiny. Anyway since I believe in the existence of an afterlife, I believe, that even if something bad happens one after another, as long as you stay a good person, someday (now or in the afterlife) you will be rewarded for it. I also want to emphasize, that human beings tend to concentrate on the negative things that happen in life, which makes other bad things come up as a consequence as well (in terms of e.g. self fulfilling prophecy). About happiness I think that not only do we have high expectations regarding being happy (we forgot to be happy about the small things in life) but also do we tend to forget about the happy things that have happened, because it doesnt serve that big of a purpose as remembering bad things (purpose here is, the fear of getting into a bad situation again --> avoiding behavior that leads to it). Being happy is a really subjective thing.
I think you can obtain happiness once you've tried to understand the things above. Also it is necessary to know that your own happiness isnt smth that solely depends on other people but mostly on you.The thing about love is a bit more complicated, since that is something that depends mostly on others (in my opinion. I know that you should love yourself etc., but our existence depends on other people's feelings towards us as well). I think different people define love differently. Familial love, love you receive from friends or even a lover, and you decide whats most important to you. My family is the most important to me and even if I would lose everyone else, I wouldnt wanna lose their love. Regarding the lover thing, I can't even imagine myself in such a situation, because of bad experience (not that Ive been in a relationship, but almost everyone around me suffered from their relationships and I just decided that i didnt wanna get myself into a similar situation.) <-- but thats still a decision I made.
Well thats just how i see things, in the end the main message is that you can define what happiness and love is for you, and if you dont set your expectations too high, you might find happiness even in ordnary things. Sorry for the long text, imma go sleep now^^
私はたこ焼きの匂いか？ おちんちん どこ だ。マスターシェフ私のお尻！あなたはクソラットだ! Happiness is not attainable for everyone in the world, due to their country’s circumstances. But for someone living in a decent country and has a fairly stable financial state, you can most definitely achieve happiness. But you have to make an effort.
I don't believe that destiny itself is the cause of bad or good things, it's the idea of destiny that really makes people believe they can't change their path.
we on some neji hyuuga shit bois
I remember watching this anime about a boy and i think he was able to see when people where going to die and im pretty sure in the first ep he was walking on the street and he saved someone who was going to die or, i cant really remember to well the details, so this might be wrong, but does anyone know the name of an anime like that?
I think it's Noragami
im looking for people to talk to about yaoi or anime/manga, i want to be able to make some good friends :) anyone who wants to, i'm okay with line or messaging on insta
hello friend! i would love to have a yaoi buddy!! let me know if you wanna talk ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
yeah, that would be good, insta or line or something? (=・ω・=)
maybe insta?
Hello! I would like to join too! Maybe form a group? My insta is Giant_mistake
hello! sound fun to me!! my insta is stacy.stidham1
btw what is ur pic for insta? there are a few with ur same insta name...
It’s a black woman that looks fed up
found yew (●'◡'●)ﾉ
looking for seme x seme? i've read this one: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sore_wa_tabun_itoshii_tte_koto/
and really enjoyed it and ive also read puchitto hajiketa...
could anyone recommend me Yaoi mangas with seme, who is kind/gentle or has puppy nature/gets nervous and uke who is dominant or mean...and beautiful art style. thankyouu
i go through different phases were i willl choose a certain category of yaoi manga say for example i will search for yaoi mangas under the tag *older seme* or something like that but recently i havent had much time to search for anything since work is piling up. At the moment i have been into yaoi mangas with black haired ukes and light haired semes it might seem silly to have such a preference but i always see black haired semes and light haired ukes and theres something sexy about it being switched over for once since black hair is seen as being more "masculine" for some reason. I dont like yaoi mangas that are cluttered or busy looking or that are bad quality i like the beautiful art types that are clean looking for example one yaoi that checks all the boxes for me is Putchitto Hajiketa by Kanda Neko ...i love it so much its literally my favourite...and it has a black haired uke and light haired seme...sorry if this all sounds weird but does anyone recommend any with this weird preference of mine in mind (⌒▽⌒) xD
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/junai_caricature/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/see_you_agai/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bukiyo_na_bokura_no_sukima/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/razoku_no_hanayome/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/senpai_no_mizugi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/itou_san_kuraka_sui/
Too lazy to make a list (〜￣△￣)〜
A lot of the ones in this list meet that http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/103408/?filter=&page=1
so i remember reading this yaoi and i cannot remember the name but i think it started out with a guy in a internet cafe masturbating and another guy pops his head in and he gets startled ...another part i remember is the two guys work for this other guy as his toy/plaything/servant? or something like that...does anyone know a yaoi like that?
never mind lol i managed to find it...its this one; http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/rakuen_uehara_ari/uu/tr_chapter-1/pg-1/