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mintywolf May 13, 2019 5:28 am

So I wanted to know how y’all feel about your own romantic relationships and finding significant others and falling in love. Me personally, I’ve dated 2 people which I would hardly call dating. I’ve also never fell in love, but it is something I would love to do. I often imagine myself finding a lover I could give everything too and trust but I am also very scared. I have not had my first kiss because I am saving it for the person I fall in love with. I and scared that I do end up falling in love with someone and they are unfaithful or break my heart. I wouldn’t know how to deal with that detachment. I often imagine my self with a fully trustworthy husband whom I love and who loves me. I long to have a loving husband and a respectable son. I can imagine myself raising a lovely son but I fear that I won’t trust a man enough to allow myself to fall in love in fear of that heartbreak. I’m hardly 15 which is probably why I haven’t found a significant other, but I often get sad just thinking about how much I want, but don’t have a family of my own. What are yalls thoughts/opinions ?

    Gintoki May 13, 2019 5:58 am

    I also really wanted to find a loyal lover but I'm scared because i'm afraid of betrayal or if that person cheat on me. I'm afraid i'll probably commit a crime.Yes, we could find a person that will currently love us but i think that feeling will soon fade away no matter what. I really want to believe in true love but that's really hard to find and i started to doubt if it's real. I had a boyfriend before but I haven't had my first kiss yet because i'm saving it for the person that i will love deeply. The person that will make me feel that i will do anything for them.
    I even started to think that if i can't find a person like that is it okay to marry another person and face the possibility of his unfaithfulness. And that the only time that i can prove if he really won't betray me is a few seconds before I die and he still didn't cheat on me.
    I also started to think that if someone confess to me i'll ask them to cut their finger for me to prove their love for me and to prove that they won't ever betray me. But then i thought that this is useless because they probably really love me at that time but what about the future? I also thought that unfaithfulness and betrayals are part of human nature. Cheating and betraying is natural. Maybe because i haven't met anyone who can tell me that their lover never cheated on them. Every human being is unfaithful but then i realized i'm a human being and that i promised myself to be faithful to my future lover. I don't know where to find someone like this.

    baka May 13, 2019 6:00 am

    if you can't fall in love then why do even date? you will just end up hurting your partner..have some courtesy.

    Gintoki May 13, 2019 6:09 am

    You're hardly fifteen, you're still young. Just want to say the i'm 22 and i'm still waiting. Just wait, don't rush and don't worry. We'll find that person eventually i'm not sure when but we probably will.
    I 'say' probably because i have doubts myself but currently i like daydreaming about my future lover. I'm currently satisfied with that.

    Gintoki May 13, 2019 6:17 am
    if you can't fall in love then why do even date? you will just end up hurting your partner..have some courtesy. @baka

    I think it's because she wanted to fall in love? She probably tried dating to fall in love. Probably. Yeah, probably. Because not all people experience a shoujo like love life falling in love first then dating.

    Love May 13, 2019 7:00 am

    I think it is wonderful that you are saving yourself for somebody that you fall in love with. I think that the best advice I can give you is to not find somebody to date but find a bestfriend instead. If you look for love you will never find it in the form you wish it to be in.

    Being so young I think you should spend time bonding wth your friends before you think about being in a commited relationship at all. It’s years of your life you won’t get bad and spending it with people you care about is better than trying to find that one person.

    With your ages chances are you haven’t had the chance to experience the world in an adult light, traveling and meeting new people can be a wonderful thing and can blossom new relationships. Until then focus on studies and yourself, because even if you find the right person for you, if you aren’t ready and you don’t know yourself as an individual, what your strengths and weaknesses are your relationship can’t form in a healthy light.

    You are never going to trust somebody you just met, trust takes time to gain and yes sometimes people cheat, but if you are in a healthy relationship and you communicate to each other your wants and needs and show you care then trust is gained.

    It is better to have love and lost than to never have loved before. I think this quote rings true in the sense that you can’t be afraid of loving somebody because you’ll end up missing out on so many opportunities. Keep an open heart but also know what you need to feel cared for and safe.

    For example, I need the person I love to honest with me when I ask him questions, he knows that if he ever were to cheat on me that I couldn’t be with him anymore, and he isn’t allowed to raise his voice at me in threatening way (ptsd issues). He knows I get grumpy when he plays videogames and doesn’t spend quality time with me so majority of the time he can set down the controller and sit down and talk to me about whatever we want.

    But at the same time I understand what he needs, which is confirmation that I love him, even if I show it to him he needs to hear that I care and he is my world, he needs support when he feels sad even if he doesn’t show it, and I know that he enjoys it a lot when I get interested in something he is interested in, whatever his interest is for the time period.

    Taking care of each other is a major factor in a relationship that I feel isn’t talked about enough, it is not just about the feelings of love and having a good time, it’s about wanting the best for each other. Making sure they stay healthy, are getting enough sleep, making sure they do the chores around the house so they have clean clothes to wear.

    I hope this helped a bit.

mintywolf April 6, 2019 9:01 am

Can y’all give me some yaoi manga like tadiama okaeri ?

mintywolf October 30, 2018 2:43 am

Yaoi manga where the Uke and seme have a toxic relationship

mintywolf June 12, 2018 1:13 pm

I literally cannot sleep. I’ve been up since 4pm and it’s almost 8am. Help ┗( T﹏T )┛

    ღ UWU ღ June 12, 2018 1:14 pm

    try subliminal (booster) or sleeping sounds

    Anonymous June 12, 2018 1:24 pm

    you need just to look less at your screen and your natural sleep patterns will come back.

    ❁❁❁ Grey ❁❁❁ June 12, 2018 1:32 pm

    Change places with me.I am SO sleepy but I have to stay awake...

    peace_yow June 12, 2018 1:54 pm
    you need just to look less at your screen and your natural sleep patterns will come back. @Anonymous

    +1. Blue light from screens prevents the release of melatonin, the sleep hormone. Also check if your body parts have a normal temperature.... I sometimes can't sleep cause I let my legs get too cold and I just notice when I wanna sleep... I'm just weird like that ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    Qwqeerxx June 12, 2018 3:29 pm

    Drink hot milk or hot chocolate ...

mintywolf June 10, 2018 3:07 am

It was a yaoi manga and the uke was working at this guys house as a maid. And the seme was like a pilot? The seme had a child that said that the 2 were “eating sausage in bed”

mintywolf April 29, 2018 3:20 am

Just any yaoi manga that’s super sad. Just something to make me cry

    lightbulb April 29, 2018 4:08 am

    it’s on the softer side, but Hate Mate hit me really hard

    alcoholic April 29, 2018 8:36 am

    Dog style
    I know the name sounds str8 up smex but trust me it has feels, and it made my heart melt when i was young

mintywolf November 7, 2017 11:46 pm

Okay I read this manga so long ago. Is a yaoi manga where The uke and the seme have been going out for a while and the uke is a super nice and bubbly person and the seme really likes that about him. (The seme is also a nice guy) One say the uke like has sexy with the seme and was like "this is how I really am are you disappointed" or something like that and the seme was taken offguard by the ukes action and the uke turned out not to be a super nice guy. PLEASE HELP ME

mintywolf August 27, 2017 3:57 am

Can y'all gimme a yaoi manga like sick? With the delinquent like seme and the nervous uke and the brother complex

mintywolf August 23, 2017 1:07 am

Can y'all help with a list of sad yaoi manga? Thanks in advance

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