okay i'm just going to ignore the r*pe for right now because doing that while someone is i toxicated is just a normal yaoi stereotype now (which does not excuse the behavior, keep that in mind. never EVER sexually harass someone under the influence since they cannot consent, thank you) anyways i'm seeing some people in the comments saying they prefer blonde hair dude as a neko but this is how i base nekos in bls if i can't tell right away: 1) they're shorter than the other person 2) they have somewhat of a meek personality to them, while the tachi is more outgoing, bold, and more flirtatious 3) they don't take initiative, it's always the tachi. and right no all of those 3 things apply to the dark haired guy so i'm labeling him as a neko for now (keep in mind in certain relationships i dislike switches, it's because of social standards telling us that even in lgbt relationships there needs to be a male and a female role which is not true so please don't come after me i'm trying my best to change and see things differently, but for right now, in bl mangas, authors usually just keep the neko and tachi the same throughout) and so i don't think i would really like the blonde haired guy as the bottom since he doesn't fit the (my) criteria and he just seems like a top which is bl why i got a bit uneasy when he was like i prefer to be on the bottom but oh well! i was like ms maam what (SWITCH ALERT LMAO- jk i don't have the raws) anyways just because of this if the black haired guy does end up being on top i might drop ://
okay i'm just going to ignore the r*pe for right now because doing that while someone is i toxicated is just a normal yaoi stereotype now (which does not excuse the behavior, keep that in mind. never EVER sexually harass someone under the influence since they cannot consent, thank you) anyways i'm seeing some people in the comments saying they prefer blonde hair dude as a neko but this is how i base nekos in bls if i can't tell right away: 1) they're shorter than the other person 2) they have somewhat of a meek personality to them, while the tachi is more outgoing, bold, and more flirtatious 3) they don't take initiative, it's always the tachi. and right no all of those 3 things apply to the dark haired guy so i'm labeling him as a neko for now (keep in mind in certain relationships i dislike switches, it's because of social standards telling us that even in lgbt relationships there needs to be a male and a female role which is not true so please don't come after me i'm trying my best to change and see things differently, but for right now, in bl mangas, authors usually just keep the neko and tachi the same throughout) and so i don't think i would really like the blonde haired guy as the bottom since he doesn't fit the (my) criteria and he just seems like a top which is bl why i got a bit uneasy when he was like i prefer to be on the bottom but oh well! i was like ms maam what (SWITCH ALERT LMAO- jk i don't have the raws) anyways just because of this if the black haired guy does end up being on top i might drop ://