Thank you everyone for your care but i don't have anyone with whom I can share it n I'm embarrassed and disgusted to share it with my brother and mom..... I can't just say anything about him as, if my family breaks it will all be my fault.. and i can't take responsibility for breaking my family... I just wish he would not behave the way he does with me when we're alone....
I am a mom and I can tell you that if a person was making my kids feel uncomfortable, I don't care who they are, they are gone. No one and I mean no one messes with my babies. If I am not there to protect them who will? I am sure your mom feels the same way. If he does hurt you don't you think your mom would feel worse because she could of done something if you said something? And I will say this, He is a grown man responsible of his own decisions and in no circumstances is hurting you ever your fault or your responsibility. He is not worthy of being in your family if he is trying to hurt you. You hold no responsibility in breaking up your family, however you have a responsibility to protect yourself. I beg of you please speak to someone. You could not only be protecting yourself but another young beautiful person. Please stay safe.
You also have to understand that not all mothers are the same. Yes, most mothers would side with their child and kick the perverted creep out. Some mothers and families would end up blaming that child for saying anything or completely deny what their child tells them and say that he or she seduced their boyfriend or "man" and make their child feel horrible for "breaking up their family" or "taking their man away frome them".
Not nonetheless I still do agree that she needs to say something before something really does happen and then she would be blamed again by others for "not saying anything about it sooner" etc.
I understand what tamaki is going through... My father (not biological) has been acting strange around me from last year and sometimes I think if my brother is not with me he'll do something to me i get scared to be alone with him...but i cant say it to anyone cause i feel disgusting..and nauseous