Guys gimme some BL with mature people and a healthy , warm relationship ( no crybaby uke p...

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mr_100_perfect/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/rumspringa_no_joukei/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kowagaranai_de_soba_ni_ite/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/3_ban_sen_no_campanella/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hatsukoi_no_atosaki/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/outsider_communication/

some good recommandations above (didn't read them all but now I can ^^) I may have similar taste to yours perhaps this list may interest you http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/635473/ I especially recommend "I have a boyfriend" and "Unintentional Love Story"

fluff
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/suzutsuki_neko_wa_nyao_to_naku/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/fuyushirazu_no_koi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/oh_my_assistant/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yamada_to_shounen/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/katakoi_opera/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shoushin_otoko_ni_haru_no_arashi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/senpai_danjite_koidewa/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/salad_days_tang_liuzang/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/negative_kun_to_positive_kun/