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Let's not misgender the friend!

joonlli August 22, 2020 11:19 am

Guys, I think the friend param was talking to is trans, they even took param to a gay bar, why would a girl of all have access to going in there? Pretty sure it's not allowed for women to go there, I'm 99% sure they are trans considering the way they acted and the fact that they went to a gay bar, let alone flirted with some guys if you noticed. I will continue to call the friend they/them until it is confirmed. Let's not misgender the friend!

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    LazyParrot August 22, 2020 12:16 pm

    I'm not sure why is this really important but Jun is a girl. At least she was born as female. She said it herself that she is a girl and she doesn't have that male G-spot. Hwi even notice that just by shaking hands with her.
    She could be just a social butterfly and have close friends within the community.

    joonlli August 22, 2020 2:38 pm
    I'm not sure why is this really important but Jun is a girl. At least she was born as female. She said it herself that she is a girl and she doesn't have that male G-spot. Hwi even notice that just by shaking h... LazyParrot

    Like I said, that was only a theory, I'm not saying they can't have close friends from the lgbtq community, what I said was that they could be trans as they were able to enter a gay bar, usually woman regardless of connections are not allowed to enter gay bars unless they are proven trans, hwi does say that they are a girl but he doesn't know them personally, like I said they could be a transgender male and I don't get why a lot of people hate me for thinking so??? I'm literally speaking as a trans person myself but for all I know they could be a girl and I'm just getting ahead of myself, but that doesn't mean they can't turn out trans, nothing is confirmed yet.

    samantha August 22, 2020 3:20 pm
    Like I said, that was only a theory, I'm not saying they can't have close friends from the lgbtq community, what I said was that they could be trans as they were able to enter a gay bar, usually woman regardles... joonlli

    gay bars are usually super friendly and let everyone in. unless you’re talking about where they’re at then i don’t really know the customs there. but that’s just my experience with lgbtq clubs and bars.

    Cherushi August 22, 2020 3:34 pm

    That's totally what I was thinking! They could be a closeted trans and still use she/her pronouns.. Like me. But idk until it's confirmed, so I'm also just gonna use they/them to be safe!

    Shoto August 22, 2020 4:34 pm

    She looks like a male. Probably why

    LazyParrot August 22, 2020 6:55 pm

    If you're so concerned about about calling what to call her, just use her name. Korean just use a neutral third person on convo normally.
    Sigh, you know what this is getting no where. As per usual.

    joonlli August 23, 2020 2:03 am
    gay bars are usually super friendly and let everyone in. unless you’re talking about where they’re at then i don’t really know the customs there. but that’s just my experience with lgbtq clubs and bars. samantha

    Im sure every place is different with their rules but with my experience is I have heard that some don't let women in unless they have something to prove them trans, (for example: someone who knows the security around the place and is trusted, so they let the guards know that you are trans, or maybe like transitioning medical records, etc) it's really easy for women to go in regardless of it being just a gay bar which is originally made for gay men, not gay men and women, but I guess in some western places it is allowed for both, I'm not 100% sure tho, like I said it's just a theory and I might he just getting ahead of myself lolol

    joonlli August 23, 2020 2:04 am
    That's totally what I was thinking! They could be a closeted trans and still use she/her pronouns.. Like me. But idk until it's confirmed, so I'm also just gonna use they/them to be safe! Cherushi

    I don't think anyone has called them she/her other then hwi and he doesn't even know them personally, so ofc he would assume, but for all we know it's just a theory ajajsjjs