its ok to read bl but its not ok to ship and drool over homosexual relationships in real life. just know how to make a boundary between fiction and real life :>
I don't think it's bad to enjoy BL and Yaoi but as said as the person above, you should ship fictional characters are not those is real life. I know there are a few other things but this is one of the main ones. If they keep complaining and hating then they're just butthurt about it. (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Totally agree... it is not up to us, the fujoshis, to determine whether it's fetishizing or not. It's up to the people involved... gay men.
hmm i just want to add and change the perspective a bit. If youre straight and you like bl does it automatically mean your fetishizing homosexuality? If yes, then if youre gay and you like shoujo and josei does that mean youre fetishizing heterosexuality?
as a bisexual leaning towards lesbian, my answer would be: REGARDLESS OF YOUR GENDER IDENTITY, IT ALL DEPENDS ON YOUR INTENTION AND MIND SET. I wont expound on this because then Id be sending a long ass thesis paper lmao
Okay so, I know a majority of the people here have read yaoi and I just wanted to hear your opinions.
Lately, I’ve been noticing that people would get attacked for liking yaoi or BL, is that a bad thing? They said it’s because of all the sexual content in it, but I’m not really into yaoi because of that. So I’m really confused.
Does liking BL mean u fetishize mlm?? I don’t, and never will. I respect them very much and I wouldn’t imagine ever fetishizing them and being a creep. But if I were to say that I still am interested in BL, I’d probably get attacked. Anyone know how to answer me? Also sorry if I didn’t make sense, I’m not the best at writing my thoughts and questions out !!