Ffs why is it so hard for u people to understand this has nothing to do with bdsm or hardcore bdsm????? This whole « play » is happening bc MD hold grudges and is trying to get some reaction out of him?? He wasn’t slapped just to get pleasure out of it. He was even uncomfortable compared to their usual plays. So plz stop trying to explain the rules of bdsm that’s not the point open your eyes.
EXACTLY!!! They should've both talked about it first because they're just going to continue hurting each other if they don't talk about what's going one first. I feel that their relationship is going downhill because of both of them not communicating :/
I literally can’t with u people why is it so hard to understand this has nothing to do with bdsm or hardcore bdsm? Lmfao right chanwoo seemed to love it in that last panel he didn’t seem uncomfortable at all.
This. This “play” stopped being bdsm the moment that MD realized that Chanwoo won’t say the safe word. Now it’s just abuse.
Oh please. Just because you read 50 shades and 10 manga does not make you an expert social worker or BDSM player. Keep the swallow wisdom to a minimum until you actually participate in a BDSM relationship
Many of us have. And agreed with their opinion and are saying that yours is wrong. So maybe you should actually be the one to shut up first. Or at least stop trying to educate people in something you are ignorant about
Dear god do I hope you don’t participate in shit like this and call it bdsm. If you do, please call the police. I’m being so serious rn.
NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ABUSED.
This is blowing my mind! ‘If you’re stupid enough to do something like that you deserve to be abused’ ‘this is a BDSM relationship, so a slap even if unwanted is absolutely fine’, these sort of phrases are quite literally saying ‘well he consented once....or well he deserved it.’ Victim blaming phrases. The moment I don’t consent to something, whether I like BDSM or not, it is abuse.
This sums up the whole debate
First of all I have participate in BDSM I know what I mean I know there's is a need for mutual respect and understanding between both dom and sub but Chanwoo does not respect MD feelings even when they first started. I'm not saying there isn't abuser who use BDSM as an excuse what I and everyone else is saying is the abuser isn't MD it's Chanwoo
This is so so simple. Why are some people struggling to get that?
The Dom feelings, when they're anger, CAN'T COME INTO THE PLAY. Sorry but no. If that happens that's a shitty partner and it's putting the sub in danger
Chanwoo is the abuser aight... lmao
A sub shouldn't disregard their Dom's feelings just because they aren't the one's in charge. You came keep fucking with someone and then play victim when you get a reaction
Oh my god i hope you haven't actually participated into any kind of play. What you're defending isn't part of our community. We don't excuse abusive behaviour EVER. If a Dom doesn't agree with a sub THEY STOP THE PLAY, they don't inflict harm in a position of anger. You're so sooo wrong
Right? This mindset is so dangerous!
I'm like woah, the level of stupidity in this comment section is outstanding
You baptized it abusive. MD asked if they are both willing to participate. They both said yes. Chanwoo can leave whenever he likes. Since no deep feelings of love are involved (well not for Biss anyway, according to him Chanwoo is chained with invisible chains). So if you have a slave and the Dom gives an order and the slave disobey the Dom will sweet-talk him gently? Especially in front of others??? Oh yes you are so part of this community
I am too and yes I know your not agreeing with me
Lmfao I beg u to stop it’s impossible to communicate when you don’t even get what the point is and you’re still hung up on speaking about the rules that everybody now while here it is NOT about that ffs. Let us part my friend
so according to those defending MD, if someone asks you out and u reject, you deserve whatever happens to you next:|