What?

I mean, he said all his past girlfriends demanded answers so for them to ask questions means there was no mutual trust in the relationship... he wasn’t doing the best he could... but I haven’t dated so what do I really know??

this entire time he’s been coming on way too strong,,, him n uncle r both complicated characters it’s obvious if they want to get along they have to communicate what’s best for them

You spoke my mind lol I was like - wait Yuyang how did you come to that conclusion? XD

redhead rushing things is not really seem serious. you can't rush things in a relationship. and they burly know each other, if he had a clue on how to date he won't even ask to move in with him out of no where.

I think it depends. Some people rush things and move in together pretty quickly, others don't. I honestly don't think the issue here is Red knowing how to date or not. The problem is that there's no communication between Red and Uncle, and mostly because Uncle doesn't want to talk about serious matters. He never answers Red in a serious way; he takes everything as a joke. He should properly communicate to Red how he (Uncle) sees their relationship (which is as nothing serious) so Red wouldn't be wondering about things.

well, to be honest, I don't blame him for not taking him seriously. and the age gap is huge, you can't really fix that in a day. not even talking about uncle commitment issues, that you can't blame him for having. but at least he let him stay by his side, it a good change for someone you claim do not take it "seriously" he actually thinking very hard on their relationship while redhead like "let's live together" despite we don't know shit about each other.

Well, Uncle himself said (while Red was sleeping) that he wasn't taking that relationship seriously, so... What I was saying is that there's no serious communication, so problems won't be solved regardless of how much time passes. I am not blaming Uncle for not wanting to have a serious relationship - that's his choice and no one has nothing to do with it. I am just saying he should communicate his preferences so the other would know what's going on.

that only proves that he does thinking about it seriously, a man that didn't care about the relationship won't even think about it at all, while Pan does think about it for a long time. at least that how I see it.
someone like Pan that can't let himself admit his own feelings to himself, how do you think he could communicate with someone else?
I think both of them can be blamed for those problems, no one is innocent here since they both humans with problems, Readhead and uncle both have issues. I just hope they get over their issues and try to be better to each other or at least friends at the end of this. but if they break up I won't hate or blame any of them.

We can agree that they are both humans and shouldn't be blamed if there's a break up. Whatever the outcome, I hope this relationship can help both of them grow. In the end, guess that's one of the best things all of us can get from a relationship. Hopefully one day they will communicate well (not only with each other but with whatever person they might meet in the future).

totally agree (⌒▽⌒)