Ughhhh...

From what I read, this relationship is not healthy.

Hmn...I think they definitely lack communication. However, I don't really see any emotional or physical abuse or neglect. The seme seems caring and attentive to the other guy, although he doesn't seem to realize that he's lying or starting to cheat emotionally.

What seems unhealthy about them to you? I'm genuinely curious!

Maybe that's our misunderstanding.
An unhealthy relationship is for me not only abuse or sth extreme.
I don't like him. He is possessive and patronizing.
And the uke shows no love. Maybe he is comfortable in a relationship, but I see no affection. Or at least not much. When he is ready to cheat and lie he also isn't sure about them.
I understand why everyone is angry at the liar, but at the same time, I can understand him a little. When people are symbolizing a better time in your life, when you still were happy, it's even harder to let them go. And the Ex never gave him a reason for the break up, so their were still questions in his mind.


Of course that doesn't justify lying and maybe later cheating.

I can see the patronizing bit, but I wonder how he thinks because the POV seems to be mostly from the uke so we don't know how the seme feels just yet. However, I don't think he is acting or moving out of malicious intent. But I guess to each their own!!

I definitely agree that the uke doesn't seem very affection or in love and just comfortable. I figured he was a big old tsundere though! Lmao until he met his old fling and we saw a new side to him. I don't hate the uke, I completely understand how easy it is to fall back in love with old flings and rekindle passions. Still don't stan cheaters though, which I feel like will happen at this rate. Σ(っ°Д °;)っ